I still regulary see my ex in laws. But only because I have their grandchildren/niece and nephew. If it weren't for my kids, I doubt I would bother with seeing them.
Yes I am. But I guess it doesn't matter anyways. The OP has decided she doesn't care if she is not only disrespecting of anothers culture but she's going to be rude about it as well. Quite saddening :(
If you can't stand your own company then why would anyone else want to be in your company? If you find yourself boring then perhaps someone else will too.
Taught by an Aboriginal woman? Because I can't imagine any Aboriginal person who would disrespect their culture like that. But what I don't understand is that you now Aboriginal people are offended by what you have been doing however are choosing to do it anyways? Well I'm sorry but I just can't comprehend that.
I've probably found the opposite. I've always been a very emotional person and have probably toughened up as i've gotten older. But with certain moments in my life I may be more emotional than other times. Right now I have pregnancy hormones making me very emotional. I cry a lot over every little thing. Although I try not to do it in front of the kids lol. They don't like seeing mummy upset.
No, not particulary. But I think there could've been a better way of approaching this topic. Like I said I don't like cats but I'm not starting threads ignoring everyone else's opinions and talking about how i'd like to shoot innocent animals.
I dislike cats. But then i'm not much of a dog fan either. I do get the whole danger to Australias native animals etc. But is this thread really necessary? Some people love cats. Cats are loyal animals and quite intelligent too. People like them. So what? If I go to peoples houses I just don't touch their cat. I'm not going to be cruel to it though. Its still one of Gods creatures. What kind of horrible person would hurt a cat just coz they don't like it. :(
I'm not sure what you're getting at but I don't hang around the type of 'venues' either you might be talking about. I'm also very sheltered. However I see tattoo'd men everywhere in public, like the supermarket etc. And if you're not a fan of tattoos then well done or not if you don't like them then you won't be able to tell the difference. But despite your preference, tattooing is art. Artists using a human canvas. And just like any art anywhere else there is bad art and there is good art. And a good artist will produce a good tattoo.
No disrespect to Normal but I have to agree. Just because one is single, doesn't necessarily mean they are ready to date again. I know I'm not ready and so I choose to not date.
Do people realise the stolen generation was a way to try and totally wipe out an entire race of people? Having your children ripped from your arms never to be seen ever again or even know where they are and for those children to lose any sense of indentity they have is not comparable to a marriage breakdown where you know the whereabouts of your children and that they're still with some of their family. Its just. not. the. same. Normal you work in a bookshop, you should be more educated on this issue. Please stop comparing the two because its ridiculous. Now back onto the original topic.
I suggest some people educate themselves on the stolen generation and the reasons behind them being taken. There can be no comparisons. Me being Indigenous has nothing to do with it. Its just stupid and foolish to compare the two situations. Like I said they don't relate.
Don't you DARE compare your situation to the Stolen Generation!! How bloody insulting!! Either take the constructive advice thats been given to you over and over again or GTFO. So many people, despite your rudeness and hostility, have given you wonderful and excellent advice but you only want to take what you want to hear and not the helpful advice thats been given to you. Seriously, I think you need some kind of psychological help. And I mean that in the most sincerest way. Please go see someone because you really need it.
I think its a great idea but the kids and I are scared of the dark. Yes don't laugh I don't like total darkness lol. But perhaps i'll buy some candles so we can do it this year.
I'm a bit lazy now but I try to recycle, I compost, when my kids were in nappies I used modern cloth nappies (not the old fashioned terry squares, but new styled nappies-google it lol) and cloth wipes. Up until 2 weeks ago I was walking and using public transport (i'm now 34 weeks pregnant and its no longer possible). I try to eat as much unprocessed foods as possible. I try to use natural and organic cleaning products and toiletries. Um think thats it.
I didn't ask the man I loved for 5 years to cheat on me and leave while my kids were only young and decide he didn't want to work anymore so he didn't have to pay child support. To have the women he dated to call me/text me with every derogatory name under the sun while he allowed it and decided that he only wanted to see his children when it was convenient for him and to appease his family and look good in front of his new girlfriend. Then only to move 4 hrs away so he didn't have to see them at all. I didn't ask for a lot of the bad treatment I have recieved since from other bad men. But hey that doesn't make every man an arsehole. And that doesn't mean I hold a chip on my shoulder about every man out there. The dad to this baby I'm soon going to have isn't an arsehole, however sadly we just didn't seem to get along at the time, but otherwise he's a great guy and dad to his other children. I'm lucky I didn't conceive another child to another deadbeat. There are great men out there. Through this site alone I've met some wonderful seemingly genuine guys. Even if they understand I'm not looking for a relationship. I'm comfortable being single. I'm comfortable with who I am without a man in my life. I didn't realise that was a bad thing. Maybe you should focus on some self improvement and personal growth before looking for a potential partner. Find a good psychologist or perhaps take some time to read some of the self help books in your store. I recommend a book title The problem with women is men by Charles J Orlando. He has a page on facebook if you're on there. I've sought help in various areas and its made me a better person and helped me to not feel so bitter and negative like you seem to be. You should consider it for yourself. Good luck.
I don't have an attitude about men. I have an attitude about men like you. Perhaps you might like to change this bad attitude of women you seem to have. It may just be beneficial to you.
Somebody has an extremely large chip on ties shoulder. And you all missed this guy? I certainly didn't. Attitudes like that from men is the reason why I am happy to be on my own.
Its wonderful. Until they're 2ish lol. I'm trying to get my 5 and nearly 4 yr old out of my bed. They're quite active in their sleep and I prefer not to be kicked in the head and/or baby belly or wee'd on when my daughter has an accident lol. But co-sleeping with your kids is one of the best feelings. Not even a man can replace that.
But when no-one is in my bed it doesn't feel empty. And I don't need a man in my life to feel complete. Its taken a lot of personal growth to feel this way. To be happy and content to be single. Why do people think you have to have a man in your life to be happy? I feel down some days being single and pregnant but I'd rather be unhappy alone than be unhappy in a relationship because someone else is making me miserable. Right now, all I need to make me feel complete is my children.
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RE: Ongoing Exes
I still regulary see my ex in laws. But only because I have their grandchildren/niece and nephew.If it weren't for my kids, I doubt I would bother with seeing them.