I did not post this thread out of spite, anger or to make V. look bad in any way shape or form. I was confused by the reason she gave to me and all I wanted to do was try and understand it. I figured what better place to try and understand it than to get some feed back from those that know her well.
I never asked V. nor would I ever think of asking her to give her reason in a public forum and what makes you think I'm grieving? I'm happy with the time we had together and evertime I think of her (which is often) she brings a smile to my face.
As for your comment of it not "right", It was right for me.
When the time is right for that individual, there's nothing wrong with moving on and trying to find someone to be happy with even if your heart is devoted to another. Your heart won't always be devoted to that person unless your lucky enough to have that person come back to you and your heart is still devoted to them.
I'd have to disagree with "life in general" thats a total copout.
Just two weeks ago she was saying she was going to come visit me. After that I got 1 email from her. We never had a single argument or a bad word to say to one another.
The only way "life " like that changes is if something went totally wrong.
RE: Will you ever remarry?
Re-marry???I'm still wondering if I'm going to ever get married at all.....