Will you ever remarry? ( Archived) (57)

Dec 3, 2006 3:38 PM CST Will you ever remarry?
lakelady51
lakelady51lakelady51Alabaster, Alabama USA24 Threads 285 Posts
I have been married and divorced twice. The last divorce was 2 1/2 years ago. Recently, I have begun to wonder if there is an "expiration date" on a woman's marriage material status.

I haven't tried to be in any serious relationships since the last divorce because I wanted to be sure I was ok being me. I am also not the type to feels "I must get married". But, it has crossed my mind that maybe my expiration date has expired.

What are your thoughts on the possibility of another marriage in your future?
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Dec 3, 2006 3:42 PM CST Will you ever remarry?
Mitchell1
Mitchell1Mitchell1Chattanooga, USA116 Threads 5,584 Posts
Never give up, if that is what you want. I say go for it.

When my father died, (they were married for 35 years)my mother remarried, her new marriage lasted only a couple years and he died. She is now 70 years old and has recently remarried again.

She also moved from Tennessee to Israel of all places.
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Dec 3, 2006 3:44 PM CST Will you ever remarry?
nostres59840
nostres59840nostres59840Missoula, Montana USA14 Threads 640 Posts
I think of marriage differently now that I am older. When younger you don't put the heavly emotional thought in it...you fall in love a certain time passes and you get married. Now I think it has a heavier emotional tag to it so to speak. I will not get married until I am sure I am completely committed to another person in every way and able to love them unconditionally. You have to want to compromise, take care of in the real sense of the word (old age, disease, etc.), and embrace their needs with yours...along with their kids, grandkids, etc. I also think this is a huge compliment when people get married after considering all the above...of all the people in the world I choose you to grow old and die with...
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Dec 3, 2006 3:44 PM CST Will you ever remarry?
heinzketchup
heinzketchupheinzketchupFort Mill, South Carolina USA11 Threads 1 Polls 1,799 Posts
I prefer leasingcheers
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Dec 3, 2006 3:45 PM CST Will you ever remarry?
lakelady51
lakelady51lakelady51Alabaster, Alabama USA24 Threads 285 Posts
I haven't really thought of it as giving up. I have just been wondering if working women like myself are destined to be married at this point in life. But, good for your Mother! I hope # 3 is good to her and they have a long and happy life together.
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Dec 3, 2006 3:47 PM CST Will you ever remarry?
heinzketchup
heinzketchupheinzketchupFort Mill, South Carolina USA11 Threads 1 Polls 1,799 Posts
hups, wrong thread
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Dec 3, 2006 3:55 PM CST Will you ever remarry?
lakelady51
lakelady51lakelady51Alabaster, Alabama USA24 Threads 285 Posts
I can't tell if you really posted to the wrong thread or if you were choosing the updated version of "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" theory.
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Dec 3, 2006 3:58 PM CST Will you ever remarry?
WhiteAsh
WhiteAshWhiteAshTurtle Lake, Wisconsin USA7 Threads 688 Posts
Not really sure, if I would do it a 3rd time. Probly not.
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Dec 3, 2006 4:03 PM CST Will you ever remarry?
nostres59840
nostres59840nostres59840Missoula, Montana USA14 Threads 640 Posts
On a side note it also can go: Why buy a pig when you can get the sausage for free. Equal Opportunity Posting..tongue
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Dec 3, 2006 4:03 PM CST Will you ever remarry?
lakelady51
lakelady51lakelady51Alabaster, Alabama USA24 Threads 285 Posts
Oooooohhhh! I love that one!
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Dec 3, 2006 4:05 PM CST Will you ever remarry?
Westdeck
WestdeckWestdeckAmsterdam, North Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1,649 Posts
If she's the right one I would consider a third time.laugh
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Dec 3, 2006 4:08 PM CST Will you ever remarry?
lvslife
lvslifelvslifemoore, USA223 Threads 2,565 Posts
Gee , I hope so. I love being married. It renews me and the better side of me comes forth. I love being in love and being loved. I'm much better as two.

Ihave been married three times. One divorce and two times widowed. Gosh, I hope I don't wait too long before the right fella comes tumbling forward.
Katcheers
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Dec 3, 2006 4:08 PM CST Will you ever remarry?
TheProfessor
TheProfessorTheProfessorPandoras Box, USA91 Threads 4,746 Posts
Nope, wouldn't ever re-marry - the first one will be the only one.wine
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Dec 3, 2006 4:10 PM CST Will you ever remarry?
Westdeck
WestdeckWestdeckAmsterdam, North Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1,649 Posts
That's what I thought to the first time man!laugh
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Dec 3, 2006 4:11 PM CST Will you ever remarry?
Mitchell1
Mitchell1Mitchell1Chattanooga, USA116 Threads 5,584 Posts
That`s what I used to think.

Love her and cherish her and always communicate with her, share everything and hold no secrets from one another, and you just might have a chance at forever.
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Dec 3, 2006 4:11 PM CST Will you ever remarry?
Mitchell1
Mitchell1Mitchell1Chattanooga, USA116 Threads 5,584 Posts
A man who loves his wife, loves himself
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Dec 3, 2006 4:13 PM CST Will you ever remarry?
TheProfessor
TheProfessorTheProfessorPandoras Box, USA91 Threads 4,746 Posts
I'm confident that will be the case! grin
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Dec 3, 2006 4:16 PM CST Will you ever remarry?
Westdeck
WestdeckWestdeckAmsterdam, North Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1,649 Posts
wink
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Dec 3, 2006 4:17 PM CST Will you ever remarry?
Chele1964
Chele1964Chele1964Pittsboro, Indiana USA48 Threads 2,488 Posts
I don't know if I would a third time? I do know if I even considered it, I would have to be 99.9% sure it would last. I will not go through another divorce. sigh
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Dec 3, 2006 4:20 PM CST Will you ever remarry?
nostres59840
nostres59840nostres59840Missoula, Montana USA14 Threads 640 Posts
hug wine
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