He's lurking in the dark. He is reading what he feels is more to his liking. He sends me flowers, and I respond. But he just stays silent and in awhile I get another one. I see him respond once in a great while. Good luck getting him out. Kat
Hi AB, I have been following them. I love that show. Yes, Edita then That blonde guy, then the skaterw/ the 18 year old teacher,then,Heather(I thought they were a little harsh) But, I also saw what they were talking about). I think Billy Ray is improving much better. The athlete, bless his heart...needs a taller partner. I know that slows him down. Kat
I just checked in to see how some of my peeps here were doing. I've been at a reunion, of sorts.
First: How long you been drinking too much? Then, your local Human Righs or Human Resourse center may have that info for you, for a free or sliding scale treatment center. MY LATE HUSBAND USED TO BE ABLE TO FIND PLACES FOR PEOPLE THAT WANTED AND NEEDED HELP. sOMETIMES IT WAS OUT OF THEIR OWN STATE. Oops, sorry bout that. A really good AA chapter may be able to help you find a place. As far as will they help? Yes, if you find one that has a good grade in such things. Some are about getting you out in as few days as possible. Those do not work. Good luck honey. If you really want to stop. You must make it known to all your friends and family and ask for their support. A good friend will support you by not asking or bringing up drinking in front of you. Family members must not judge, and be there when you call. I suggest finding a meeting with very good standards, and people with good sobriety under their belts. Get phone numbers to people that can help you through this, and call anytime you need them. Kat
I think as long as there is a box with a no face profile, he is still reachable. I went to mail and it was going to let me send him one. But as for adj, no way jose.
You are a wonderful man AB. But, my roses smell amazing. But, GOD does grow beautiful roses, I agree. I also place my roses under our windows. Anti thief... Ouch!!
Very good analogy AB. But, I have about 11 rose bushes in my yard.(all planted by me, then transplanted). I know first hand how much care it takes to keep those babies in prime form. I have to weed under them, trim low branches off and top them. I have to keep it where the water drains adequately and is absorbed also. I have to keep the bugs off them, so they will continue to bloom and have folliage. I have to fertilize them a few times a year. For me to enjoy the beauty of the rose, I have to take the bad with the good. Along with all the bloody hands I get while caring for them. Aware of the thorns? Yep, but I still keep helping them to be their best. Kat
Cave, blanket, fire, man, (that hunts, cleans, cooks and takes care of me). Okay okay...at least, cave,blanket,fire,man...that hunts. I'll take GOOD care of him. I even clean the catch. And him it he wants me too. Kat
Of course it exists. It is everywhere, see? It is there.
Peoples definition of love in many cases has changed though. It has become expendable at the first sign of trouble. Love has to be worked at, some don't want to put much effort into it anymore. Love doesn't just happen and "be", it happens and has to be fertilized, and worked in order to get the full affects of it. It's like gardening. You have to pull the weeds out continually to keep the blooms or the fruit in full growth. Therefore, with effort, love becomes stronger and bears bigger and better fruit to enjoy in the long run. Some people think it is always easy, we know it isn't. Kat
There are those that are understanably removed. Then there are those that have us in shock, such as "artgurl". That one is throwing me for a loop. Hell, she doesn't even know why. I think if we are being removed we should at least be afforded a letter of intent or a warning, giving specifics on the behavior or behaviors that are at risk, at or before the moment of removal.
I know that there are rules to follow, but sometimes in the heat of a moment, one doesn't realize how far they have gone. I believe that there should be a one time warning before losing privaledge. Then there are those that it is so blatantly obvious, that one would wonder why they stayed as long as they did. I have seen that happen too. Some seem to get more chances than others. Could be an oversight? Either way, some removals are understood, expected, even readily accepted with a sigh of relief.
But, rules should be the same for everyone. Just in reading this thread, I have seen rules being broken that we were warned about earlier on. Breaking that rule will get some removed, and some overlooked?
I think that it has been a good experience that the mods actually came in and bothered to talk to us. Kat
If you mean it runs as in the adrenalin being high and causing it to run faster, when you know you are about to die, or in fear of it. Then I believe so.
After death, upon having a serious bleeding injury, it stops bleeding when you die. The heart stops when you die, therefore no running blood. It pools in place, (causing bruising). Kat
RE: Who here is single and....
Still single, and it seems it is going to stay that way. Sigh...Kat