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Anyone know how

Anyone know how

Well, it is a very long story. She was only with him for about 7 months in 88. I had to kidnap her from him. She could never bring herself to divorce him for fear of him finding her. She has never ever used his name publicly. She is now in a pickle to get her name legally changed back to the one she has used for all those years. But, she can't use the one (his name) because her heart will not let her. She hates his name. Well, anyway, I found out that he is dead. We have to get all kinds of info to get this on the ball. She needs this badly. Thank you.
Kat

Anyone know how

Thank you sweetheart. I have tried all kinds of on line places. They all eventually try and get money.
Kat

Anyone know how

to find someones prison records? My mom was married to a guy that did time and also abused her. He is supposed to be dead now. We are trying to look up his record, as well as his death certificate info. I am not wanting to pay for it. Is there a free way to do this? I have been trying to find this stuff out, to no avail. They all want me to pay.
Kat

Judge Roy Moore

Judge Roy Moore

Ah ha....I gotcha. Me neither. I mean I don't think a persoanl choice should affect ones job. This just goes to show us that none of us are safe from the mob. Meaning, those that want to start crap. It used to be that the mob was just that. Now they are the ones that count. Not to me, but to those that want to be a part of something.
Kat

Judge Roy Moore

Okay.......???
Did you do that on purpose? Or did you get confused by the similar names?
Cool info though. Thanks.
Kat

RE: How is your State forum working?

Well it is a good thing it isn't breath, or I would be beyond blue. But, in all honesty, it isn't doing too bad. Some days we have no new ones, others there are one or two. But all in all we are having some stragglers come in and post. It's a beginning. We have two pages and hundreds of views. I didn't count the posts by the new guys. but.....my name appears most of the time. I am determined to get this off and going.
Kat

RE: How is your State forum working?

RE: Hello New Friends.....

Whewwww. Tulsa is a good place to visit. I love where I am. Glad you are an Okie now. I also am glad that you found us here. This kkind of forum is way cool. Once it picks up, it is safe and fun and and can almost have conversation in real time. I hope you stick around.
Kat

tatoos and piercings

Sorry, I really can spell. Hmmmmmmm, must have been the keyboard
Kat

tatoos and piercings

Well, we are people of mystery, comfusion and mortality. We are not too bright at times. I have those moments of hmmmmm....do I or don't I? Most times, I don't. But not too many years earlier, I probably would have. I mean, after all. I do have those many holes in my ears, of which, now I only use a few of. I have yo admit that have fiven thought to other types of piercings, but so far......nada. As far as tattoos go; I have seriously given thought to at least one. But, haven't acted on it as of yet. But, being a compulsive creature, who knows? I think I hope not, but then why not? Typical....sometimes I wonder about myself.
Kat

Dogs or cats

Didn't you already say that? Ne ne ne ne ne ne ne..... Hummm.....that was supposed to be to a tune. So, let me guess...you like cats?? Me too, but I am partial to dogs these days.
Kat

Dogs or cats

Yes maan. Been on another site for about a year now, same as this but national. Very hard to get to know someone on a personal level. Made really good friends there though.
I am excited; I hope this takes off. I already know some of the people here from Okla. They are great people.
I hope to see you around more often. I am sure that there will be many more men and women later as it catches on.
Kat

Shacking up-----vs marriage

I agree. Lawyers are the winners in divorce. Because so many people let them (the lawyers) lead them around by the nose, and put the hate in their hearts. There are mediators for this now days.
I have been both divorced and lived in sin with a man, two men. The divorce was okay til we got the lawyer involved. It gor really out of hand due to what the lawer said. As far as living with someone; to each their own. But for me it is a no go, no show. I will really soon become resentful, mistrusting and have little or no faith in that man. This is me. Living with smeone is too easy. Too easy to begin and too easy to push away.
As far as emotional scars; we don't have them from being thrown away like a sack of trash from being in that relationship with no commitment? Emotional pain is pain whether it be married pain or the shacking up kind.
Okay, you said playing house, I say shacking up. It's all good though., It means the same. So far, my teachings to my son has been good. He married, not shacked up.
I appreciate your opinion. I like the way you speak and you articulate yourself.
Welcome in. Please stick around.
Kat

Dogs or cats

My sis has some. I think they are soooo cute.
Oh, and hi, and welcome.
Kat

Tell us

Good luck selling your house. Best to buy a smaller home than buy a mobile home. Believe me....they lose their value too fast. At least a house should gain in value. My mom and I moved from a mobile home that she bought against mu advice. Well, she lost her butt. Barely got anything out of it. I think 1,600. After living in it for about 9 years. It was about 7 years old when she bought it. Good luck hon.
Kat

RE: It seems all the old fashioned ones are a dying breed who here is old fashioned?

Me too. I also like and want doors opened for me. I will also reach across and pull the handle for him. I have always had that and that probably will guide me in any romantic venture in the future. I like my coat helped off by my man. I also like him to order for me after he knows what I want. It makes me feel good that he takes the time to be a gentlman. Old fashioned? Yes. And I like it that way. So many men get mixed signals from us women, that they are confused. Do I or don't I? Poor guys, don't know which is proper for whom...
Kat

Parking lot dents.

I just hate it when I do that. Go to the store to get something and forget what it was that I went there for. Hell, I do that at home as well. Get up, go to the kitchen, open a cabinet or frig. Then flat forget what I was there for?
Hvae you ever lost something just to find it in the stupidist place imaginable?
For me it was the car keys. I found them in the freezer!! Now, I wondeer how in the heck they got in there? It is still a mystery....
Kat

Tell us

Yeah, I keep going back and forth over there. I don't mean all the time, but every so often. I try to check in here first. I truly want to see this one get off the ground.
kat

Tell us

So glad you came back in.
Kat

RE: Singles Only ......

Still......

RE: Anyone see the lunar eclipse?

Hi Ken. It is still grey. It swells quite often, but it is usable. Know what I did the other day??? I shut a door on it!
Jeeze....talk about hurt! I just stood there saying "oh gawd, oh damn, oh gawd, oh damn " " " " " " " ".

Thanks for asking.
Kat

RE: It seems all the old fashioned ones are a dying breed who here is old fashioned?

Morally old fashioned----openly lenient----open minded enough to be taught. Somewhat old fashioned in relationships.
Kat

Just goes to show ya.

Well,one thing for sure. I would have never come up with the idea she had to make the trip nonstop. Shewwww....can you imagine? It's bad enough about #1, but what about #2?? Eeeuuuwwww. We can certainly say she had stick to it-ivness, huh?
Kat

RE: Anyone see the lunar eclipse?

Started at 6:25 here.

Parking lot dents.

You're pretty much a one liner aren't you? Come on.....yaketty yaketty yaketty yak. Give me something to go on here. It's hard to carry on a conversation by my self.
It sure was cool here today. Was it pretty cool in Stillwater too?
Kat

Parking lot dents.

Society has become self serving and ignorant. It isn't only the reckless behavior of not placing carts in their respective places but they will hit your car with them. They will lay stuff on your car. Open their doors into ours without so much as blinking an eye. And they know that it is not cheap to fix things the way it used to be.
I find myself wishing for the days when people were kinder and more conscience of everyone else.

Kat

Shacking up-----vs marriage

your views?

Shacking up is not my cup of tea anymore. Been there done that. Wasn't a good mindset for me. I lose respect for the man in my life when I live with them.
People say what is a piece of paper, but what is living together with no committment? Shacking up for me means, no real values to the relationship. It is an easy way to have a playmate without being serious.
To be fearful of marriage, is to me to be selfish. What I mean is that so many are afraid of the expense of that divorce or losing what they have. Well, if that be the case, then shouldn't you maybe just live alone?
Anyway, I am all for marriage. But, to have the false security of simply living together is nil to none. It feels to me like a disposable diaper. Use it then throw it away.
Kat

For the men

Yeah, well....in my case it's probably never gonna happen. I don't ever get out and go anywhere to meet people. Can't get anywhere like that huh?

I'm gonna have to get off my butt and get out more often.
Kat