Will you ever remarry? ( Archived) (57)

I hope I will remarry just for the fact that I loved being married
was for 17yrs

i wouldlove to find out what its like to be married in the first place. to be with your soul mate forever must be an awsome feeling.
i cant wait for the day when i get to go down on one knee and show the woman i love exactly what she means to me.

I keepmy mind open too the posibility. If the right lady came into my life and she was for it, I would.But I would take it slow, become good friends first allowing us both too lear about each other first. If after that period, we still feel the same about each other, I would propose.

why is "marriage" so important? I've been there and done, besides the love we shared no lasting the after math of marriage is costly too. ita like a penalty or fine for after so many years it fails to work. the longer the couple stay amried the more costly it is when the Divorce comes. and who gets this "fine or penalty" the legal system...
Please someone tell me what marriage brings to a relationship. How does it enhance the love or prevent any of the pitfalls and mistakes we make when in love? what can marriage bring to a relationship that 2 individuals who truly love each other cannot provide on their own besides UNcle sams greedy hands
I know what happens if a marriage fails. how does the hurt fell with or without the "official" paper differ?

getting married again sure it changes nothing unless it doe not work out then the emotinal pain outweighs the other hurts tenfold.

Still don't understand in this day a nd age why it is such a critical issue in a relationship.

I guess marriage today has lost its "x" factor the days of "til death us do part" are long gone now it's been replaced by "til getting fed up do I part".

I believe as an institution, marriage is dying slowly. Ladies you wanted equality, you got it and an unfortunate downside is that for most young couples today a dual income has become a neccessity, therefore the stress levels in a relationship are much higher than in the "old model" of one bread winner and one mother/housekeeper where divorce rates were significantly lower...,

Well thats my theory anyway, as for me, of course I would re-marry if the right partner comes along - but then I'm an old fashioned romantic I guess!

it took years after the divorce before i was abl to say the reason for divorce was simply I wasn't there one too many times, and she got lonely one too many times.

I thought the "til death" too. and its become too easy to just end it this is part of my personal objection to marrying again, suffice to say it will not be my idea if I do marry again, but because of my love for her I'll probably walk that walk again, just cause she wants it.

This is my personal reason.(for me)
I have lived with a man before without marriage. I felt like there were no real ties and that I was basically free to do as I wished. As was he. There was no love contract or promises between us for a lifetime commitment. There it is...no commitment. The feelings that I had in the beginning started to change. I became less impressed, and felt like we were just role playing. It was yours and mine,and also the my way or the highway thing came up. It started to be about who put forth more money, had more invested, keeping things hidden and separate. For me, if I live with a man, I have no real respect for him. Simply put; my respect goes by the wayside and my trust is less than. If we are not willing to marry, then we are not ready to live together. I feel like it is an easy way out of something that we had no real intention of staying in. Our families never really came together because of the obvious missing pieces that make us a combined family.I will never live together without marriage again. It just doesn't feel right to me. In my opinion, if we don't care enough to marry, we have no real intentions of staying together.
Kat

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El Diablo

I have never been married yet but I do know one thing for certain. If I ever get married it will be for one time only and if it dosn't work out then I will never get married again.