since i am also here; here is what i am doing; first accept that u have value as you! your love was real and in the universe or god thing; it was recognized; even if the single one you love rejects it; some people really cant allow love in; she sounds this way to me; they have such issues and you wont solve them; be glad you dared to love and give out; and believe that it had a purpose;
now think of a toothache; its so painful; and u wait because pulling it is killer pain; and so u wait and wait; and finally; something has to give; so u get the f//ing thing pulled; then that sucks and hurts and there is a bloody hole; so u feel awful; dentist says use the salt water swish; over and over; and slowly let it heal dont chew on it or it bleeds; just minister to that hole and let it heal;let it take as long as it needs to; then ---- meet new ; many maybe; and start again; and dont allow the past to color the future; lol; i hope its a little encouraging; we all suffer;
well i eat what i want and i am old gotta move around a lot and work it off and consider a portion is a handful in the palm of hand in foodservice lingo so this is why so many fatties me thinks; i drink a lot of diet cokes and coffee which helps if i want cake i skip the meal and just do it but what i really want to eat is
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RE: how do you start to trust again?
since i am also here; here is what i am doing; first accept that u have value as you!your love was real and in the universe or god thing; it was recognized; even if the single one you love rejects it; some people really cant allow love in; she sounds this way to me; they have such issues and you wont solve them;
be glad you dared to love and give out; and believe that it had a purpose;
now think of a toothache; its so painful; and u wait because pulling it is killer pain;
and so u wait and wait; and finally; something has to give; so u get the f//ing thing
pulled; then that sucks and hurts and there is a bloody hole; so u feel awful;
dentist says use the salt water swish; over and over; and slowly let it heal dont chew on it or it bleeds; just minister to that hole and let it heal;let it take as long as it needs to; then ----
meet new ; many maybe; and start again; and dont allow the past to color the future;
lol; i hope its a little encouraging; we all suffer;