Thank you so much for you insight. It was my first time ever to do something like that. Yes, I will do things differently, MUCH differently if I'm blessed in meeting someone who may be my future life time mate.
I know its hard as I'm new here and y'all don't Know my character or if I'm a woman of integrity and honesty (which I am by the way, but you will need to see that on your own in time.)
Okay, I'm giving y'all the Readers Digest version...
So, on another site I met a man, last March 2010, who said he was a Christian. We talked every day sometimes multiple times a day for hours at a time. We never missed a day. We fell "in love" and he asked me to marry him even before we met in person.
Dec 2010 he flew out to meet me and stayed with me for 3 weeks. I introduced him to my family & friends. We spent Christmas Eve over one of my close friends house along with her family.
In short, the plan was he was going to fly back to where he's from, Harrison, Arkansas and finish his last semester of school And in May 2011 he was to pack up and move permanently here with me and we were to be married in Aug of this year.
I was going thru a very stressful time at work in February which he knew about. My mind was not on Valentines. He had sent me via snail mail a Valentine card. I had written his but left it on my coffee table. I kept meaning to pop it in the mail but my mind was on work and where I could live if I lost my job.
Valentines came I called him and said I got his card. He asked if I sent him one. I was honest and said oh honey I'm so very sorry I did not mail yours I'll send right away. I'm so very sorry. He said he was disappointed but understood.
That Friday he called and told me how excited he was to drive out to move in with me. To look for our rings... Etc...
Sat (the very next day) he text me saying he's being down. I called him and asked what was wrong. He at first said he didn't know. I asked if he wanted to pray together. He then said it was me. He said he said he was hurting as he loved me more than I loved him. That I should have known how much this meant to him. That I should have Mailed his Valentine on time.
He then started bringing up all sorts of waco stuff that did not happen. He hung up on me. Then sent a nasty ugly email to me and broke up with me in the email.
I went on the site where we met to find he reported me as a scammer and got me kicked off the site. He went on my email accounts Changed all my passwords. Has spread nasty gossip about me on that site I met him on. I found that he stole valuables from my home. And now already he is with another lady and he is saying how much in love he is with her...
WHAT HAPPENED??? What did I do? I just don't understand!
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Great response venusenvy!!!