N_of_Rockapulco Forum Posts (167)

RE: Iambic Pentameter

how is it you work and still have time for this
oh what joy, oh what bliss

RE: Iambic Pentameter

You poor guy you, who is rolling on the floor
you've spilled your drink, go get some more

RE: Iambic Pentameter

I'm glad it was just potty, and not a bad fall
did you blow the door off the stall?

RE: Iambic Pentameter

Perhaps she thinks that we are all crazy
or maybe her fingers got too lazy

RE: Iambic Pentameter

But it can go on for ever and ever
and ever and ever and ever and ever

RE: Iambic Pentameter

You guys are good, I do dare say
But my mind just does not work this way

RE: why men ride and also run faster than women

I meant run faster scared than they can mad.

RE: why men ride and also run faster than women

Don't forget we can faster scared than they can mad.

RE: Canadian Army

Did you see that? I can't believe my ears.


C L

RE: Why isn't Candor Appreciated?

You're welcome. Hang in there if you dare. Maybe these guys will see the light.

RE: Why isn't Candor Appreciated?

????

RE: How long is

I let the Easter Bunny take care of it for me.

RE: Why isn't Candor Appreciated?

What's there to disagree about. She's obviously an intelligent woman. I've seen many of her posts and I haven't seen one yet that hasn't been well thought out, reasonable, and sensible. Even when she is giving someone both barrels. This is no dumb broad.

RE: Why isn't Candor Appreciated?

RE: Why isn't Candor Appreciated?

I'm starting to think he'll never get what you're trying to tell him.


Come on, buddy. I know you can do it. Don't prove me wrong.

RE: Why isn't Candor Appreciated?

I was sitting here trying to figure out who Fn was. It took me a minute, but I got.
I'm blond, polish and male. Triple whammy!

RE: Why isn't Candor Appreciated?

So, you're telling me that it's more prudent to distrust everything someone tells you, until you have "all the facts" and are ready to make your "final decision" on the person you're considering getting to know better? At what point do you know that you have all the facts on someone? How does watching how a man treats the busboy,or whatever, tell someone that he's really single and not just playing a woman?

RE: Why isn't Candor Appreciated?

We have to believe some of the things we hear, or we're nothing more than just paranoid. This isn't a question of blame. We would be fools to trust a new partner 100%. But eventually, to make a relationship truly healthy and happy, once a commitment is being made, the trust must be 100%. As someone from England said the other day, That love must be unquestioning.

RE: Why isn't Candor Appreciated?

You're welcome.

RE: Why isn't Candor Appreciated?

I'm with you.

RE: Why isn't Candor Appreciated?

I skipped a few pages, but this sounds like a continuation of tafini's post yesterday. I don't think Integraverance is blaming anyone. I think she's been trying to simply tell you that nobody can completely protect themselves from the "players". Be it man or woman.
If a woman knows that a man has been abusive to women and choses to date him after he tells her, "I'm Ok, now, Baby. I don't hit women anymore." I think that would be a mistake on the woman's part for not seeing the red flag.
But if a man tells a woman that he's single and only has eyes for her, and then eventually she finds out that all of it was not true, then how does someone protect themselves against those sorts of lies? You can't. Unless you chose to distrust people completely, and if that's the case, you're obviously not ready to become seeking a healthy relationship with someone.
If we want to develop a relationship with someone, we have to believe some of things people tell us. Unless you have the means to do thorough background checks, or psych evaluations, or whatever.

RE: Tattoo

I doubt I'll ever get one, and it's a big turn off for me when I see women who have them on their ankles. But I do love a little one on a woman's hip area for some reason. Go figure. I've never been able to come up with something that I would think I wouldn't get bored of eventually. A friend got one of his family crest and his last name through it. I thought that was a very tasteful tatto.

RE: This is supposed to be dating??

Can everyone just hold on a second while I go make more coffee? Does anyone in here care for one?

RE: This is supposed to be dating??

Why don't I listen to you?

RE: This is supposed to be dating??

Beleive it or not, I'm trying to be nice and to be helpful.

All I'm suggesting is that you redo some of your profile. I'm certain that you have deeper qualities than just enjoying shopping in Yorkville village and hanging with your girlfriends. If you're trying to attract a man of substance, then describe yourself in a different light. Change the bait.

RE: This is supposed to be dating??

How do yoy know they weren't playing you?

RE: This is supposed to be dating??

You're absolutely right. You did say this in the beginning.

Where have you been all this time? Playing it safe in the shadows? I should've taken your cue.

RE: This is supposed to be dating??

Going back to your original post....I've looked at your profile and I see that nowhere in it do you state that you are looking for an emotionally secure and stable, intelligent man.
From reading your profile, you are simply someone who likes shopping, going out with your girlfriends for a night of partying, catching a movie, you want to travel someday, and you don't want a one-night stand. You're looking for a decent guy who is fit, eats healthy, and kind of believes in God. I certainly don't want to offend you, but I think you simply need to redo your profile and be more specific in order to weed out the "insecure, unintelligent, intimidated by smart women, idiots".

RE: This is supposed to be dating??

A wise man, this one.

RE: This is supposed to be dating??

OK