Ntxred Forum Posts (486)

RE: wanting to meet some honest and kool friends !life starts as friends huh?

My name is Carla... It is very nice to meet you! I have seen you around here lately. I haven't started really posting much on the forums regularly until a few days ago.

RE: wanting to meet some honest and kool friends !life starts as friends huh?

Hi Charlie... glad to see that you are getting some response. Thought I would reply to yours and say hi since you replied to mine earlier! keep up the good work! (gotta love those bananas!)

Bored to death in Texas tonight

BORED BORED BORED!!! I NEEDA PARTY!!!! WHERE ARE ALL THE TEXANS ON THIS SITE?

RE: is there anyone on here you d say you would get with and why?

yea.. It kinda sux for me, but... that's life. It is time to pick up the pieces and move forward. Not the first time things didn't work and I am sure it won't be the last.

RE: is there anyone on here you d say you would get with and why?

I have met one person off CS in person. There are several that I talk to off of CS. I can say that I thought the one I met was "the one", but we both want different things... so I am back to square one on here again!

RE: To, toy or not to toy?

Hey.. I sell them!!! Anyone want to order??? and.. to answer the question, I have to test what I sell so I will know what to say about them during my parties!

RE: Who's Talk Show Would Your Life Make It On?

JERRY SPRINGER!!!

RE: letting your poem talk for you, for people who can write it better then they say it

very nice! Have you ever entered into the poetry.com contests? I tend to write poems when I am down or depressed, so most of mine are sad ones.

RE: how would you describe you perfect mate what they would be like

There are women out there that will except your kids! I was married to a man for 10 yrs that had 2 of his own and I had 3 (none together). His oldest daughter lived with us the majority of our marriage. I accepted her as my own and still do even after the divorce. Keep searching. I agree with the package deal. I have 3 kids (one grown) 2 still in school, and it is hard at my age to find men that want to spend time with my kids too. Good luck to you

considering deleting my profile

Thanks for all the response. I will take what all of you are saying into consideration, and maybe just take a break. We'll see what happens next.

RE: Which type of relationship you rather have ?(Starting on CS)

Yes... that is true, but how do you really know if they are giving you the true story or not. The first thing that usually attracts me to a profile is the pic, but, when I open their profile it is definately the way they describe themselves and also what their interests and hobbies are.

considering deleting my profile

without saying too much... I will just say.. VERY BAD EXPERIENCE! And thanks for the kind words!

RE: Which type of relationship you rather have ?(Starting on CS)

I am beginning to looks or forum post either one should be attractive until you do a background check first!

considering deleting my profile

I have been on CS for about 4 mos. or so... I have met some really nice people on here, some of which I hope I keep in contact with. I am gonna wait a few days first before totally deleting my profile, so if any of you that I have chatted with want my personal email, you will have the chance to ask me before I delete everything out. Thanks to everyone! And good luck to you all!!!

RE: Is there a song that makes you cry ?

What hurts the most by Rascal Flatts

Miss me baby

RE: What's your middle name

Mine is Carla ( I go by my middle name)

RE: You want to chat?

welcome fellow texan! You are live really close to me. Have fun!

RE: Singles Only ......

still looking!!!!

RE: Singles Only ......

Still single here in Tx.

RE: Where are all the redheads?

True redhead here ALL THE WAY!! WOOO HOOOO

RE: Share your worst break up?

Now that I have all of you thinking that was my worst breakup... well it wasn't. That was just the beginning of my Jerry Springer life story! :) I met my 2nd husband on a radio talk show. They set us up on a blind match phone chat. We chatted for about 2 months and decided to meet. 6 weeks after we met in person, I married him. (not knowing half of his real story!) He was born with his heart on the wrong side and upside down. He had 2 open heart surgerys.. one at birth and one at 18 mos. old. He was given a life span of 18 yrs. He was 26 when I married him. His health begin failing throughout our 10 yr. marriage, and he was told that he needed a heart transplant in 2004. Without the transplant, he had a year to live. I gave up my life for him and stayed with him 24/7 up until finally having to put him in the nursing home to get him medicaid, as the transplant was $200,000 and you had to have the full amount up front. I did funraisers, his Mom started a webpage for him trying to raise the money. On Valentines day of 2005, I went to visit him in the nursing home and he wasn't there. All of his things were gone. I didn't know where he was for about a month. His family wouldn't tell me anything. Then, last June, I received an email from him, telling me that he was gonna be a Daddy. (his exact words) He screwed one of the nurses in the nursing home and got her pregnant. He moved in with her. I started divorce proceedings and was divorced in Aug. 2005. As if that wasn't enough, in Oct. (on my birthday) he called me and asked if he could come home. Like an idiot, I let him. He moved all his things back into our home and was here for 5 hrs before she called him on his cell. He packed everything up and left and that is the last time I have seen or heard from him. I think letting him come back was the best thing I could've ever done. It showed me how important me and my kids were to him. I have had a really hard time getting over this, but I am doing much better and I like the single life now. This is the first time I have ever been on my own. Anyone think Jerry Springer would want this story

RE: tell everyone how long you've been on cs

I joined CS about 4 months ago, I think. I just started posting to the forums recently. My name is Carla.

RE: Christmas Blues....

Just wanted to jump in and say that I am almost through my Christmas. I think for me... the hard part is knowing that I have to go and be around my family, which all know that I don't do the holidays very well. They are all so happy and cheerful and then there is me sitting there all down in the dumps. I think the hardest part is knowing that I have no one to wake up with on Christmas morning. Christmas was always a big deal with me and my ex. The last Christmas we had together was magical and very emotional because at that time we didn't know how long he had. Then... he left... and this is the 2nd year without him. I prefer to be myself over going to family thing on Christmas day. It is hard watching everyone google over their husbands and wife and then there I sit. This is also the first Christmas that I have ever been away from my 19 yr. old daughter. She and her bf went to his parents for Christmas this year. My boys leave in the morning to go to their dad's and I will sit at home on the computer and pout again like I did last year!! Thanks for the post. I know my family and friends get tired of hearing me feel sorry for myself. I don't think anyone truly understands the feeling of being so alone unless they have been there.

plans for the holidays/parties/etc.

Happy belated birthday to you!!! Party on.. my partying starts tonight!!!!

plans for the holidays/parties/etc.

Yes... I know exactly what you mean. I spent last Christmas by myself for the first time ever! It was very hard, but I made it!! The last Christmas I had with my ex was in 2004 and it was a very magical Christmas. He was in the hospital awaiting a heart transplant, and the company that my sister works for chose our family (we had 5 kids.. 3 mine and 2 his) They collected $1500 and sent me shopping. The kids opened gifts for 2 hours. I told them that year that there is indeed a Santa Clause!!! So going from that to last year and having no one here was very depressing. I am much better with being alone this year after having some time to get use to it. You know, its funny, you take little things like that for granted until they are gone.

plans for the holidays/parties/etc.

Cool! I have always wanted to go there! I have taken a cruise for vacation the past two years... but that is somewhere I have always wanted to visit that I have made it to yet! Merry Christmas and enjoy the time with your family!

RE: What is your worst pet pevee, what really gets under your skin

my pet peeves: CHEATERS, LIARS, HIPOCRITS, SLOW DRIVERS IN THE FAST LANE, PEOPLE WHO CUT LINE, BACKSTABBERS, PEOPLE SCRAPING THE FORK ACROSS THEIR TEETH.. to name a few!!!

plans for the holidays/parties/etc.

Thanks for the reply! I was beginning to think I was way to boring today! I hope that you have a wonderful Christmas and a wonderful New Year!

plans for the holidays/parties/etc.

Just wondering what everyone is doing for the holidays. I am starting tonight with a Christmas party with some of my local friends. Christmas with my parents on Christmas Eve, and hopefully a wild party for New Years Eve! All I am missing is my "special someone".

blind dates question

Thanks for the welcome! omg... How did he think he was gonna pull that one off?