well im 40 this year.....and get more attention now than wen i was in my 20s 30s........so yes we grow better with age...think its more bcos we are wiser...have more confidence now than ever b4.....i used to dread being 40....now im looking forward to it.......
to be honest..i think thats bull......i was in a very financially secure relationship ....for 11 yrs....he gave me everything materially that a woman could want....but he couldnt give me love...thats the 1 thing i craved more than anything...and would have gladly given everything up to have had just that....not all woman are gold diggers...theres a lot of women out there who lust for love and affection....y must everything be based on money and material things.....im sure a lot of women would agree with me...
its seeing the light at the end of the tunnel......and there is 1...i was in an abusive relationship for 11 yrs...not the whole 11 yrs but the last 2 of it...i was beaten so badly was put into intensive care...cracked skull and broken ribs...after that he performed a forceful act upon me as well....i hated myself...blamed myself...shouldered all the responsibility for his actions....but 10 yrs down the line...im a strong ambitious confident women who has turned her life around and shown the world...hey im part of this and im worth something...im entitled to be hear and have my say!!!! so too anybody reading this..you will pull through...you will find the strength..you will find yrself again and like what you see in the mirror, never ever give up....and good luck in the future...i hope you find what u truley deserve...peace love and happiness....
the age defo wouldnt be a problem to me.....but the lie would...if i guy will lie to you about something so trivial...then what else will he lie about....just be careful....
if every1 was honest they would say that looks are the first thing....only because there has to be that initial attraction to get the ball rolling so to speak...personality is important but its not the first thing u see is it?....unless its over net and yr talking tp some1 with no picture....but then again i dont reply to people without a pic...like to see who im talking to.....
hmmmmm wel i was born here but my mums spanish and dads irish...dont think i could ever settle abroad..as much as i get down with the country at times...its defo where my roots are.....
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RE: does it matter that younger men find older women attractive
well im 40 this year.....and get more attention now than wen i was in my 20s 30s........so yes we grow better with age...think its more bcos we are wiser...have more confidence now than ever b4.....i used to dread being 40....now im looking forward to it.......