I don't like the profiles where the men take their shirt off. I don't know, I'd rather see just the face in a pic. In the end if I really like the guy, I'll find him attractive no matter what he looks like underneath his shirt. And having a shirt off kind of says "I only want you to want me for my Body" If thats the image you want to portray, more power to you!!!
In the end, to each his own. But I'd rather see shirts on.
I've taken medication every day of my life since I was two years old... And that could never be an excuse for me. I could think of a few people on here that should be on meds... but I will keep who to myself.
One girl on the documentary who had a near death experience had said that there were flowers that were singing everywhere... Interesting. So I got to thinking that if there is a heaven (not saying yes or no) maybe Heaven would be different for each individual.
Myself, I think your sould sticks around the astral plane for awhile then goes where its needed, ya know?? Sometimes you act as a spirit guide to others, sometimes you are reborn.
But taking the "heaven/Hell" concept I cannot imagine what either would be like.
I was just wondering~~ even though I'm sure you all have discussed it before... What is your version of the afterlife?? The reincarnation thread and something I saw on the History channel about the afterlife got me to thinking about it.
So I was wondering what everyone's thoughts were on this.
Although~~ in my experience in retail, and also in my parents 30+ years in retail-- the people you really have to look out for as far as stealing are the middle aged women. I'm not sure why though,
However, as time has progressed, so have politicians and what they stand for. If I lived back then, I'd be a republican, but in today's world, I just don't side with the Republicans.
Actually ironically enough, its on barter. I change bedpans.
No really... I get free room and board for staying with my roommate. She is post-polio parylized. Monday-Friday night, I get her into bed, give her suppositories (because she can't use the bathroom on her own) and she uses the bedpan... and I change it and clean her up and put her to bed.
And considering in the daytime I change my Mom's diaper and take care of her... you could say in a way my life's work at the moment is to clean up crap.
I suppose I'm really referring to the way too many people who feel that they need a relationship to be happy. You don't need it to be happy with your life ya know??
I'm sure you'll agree that there are way too many people-- young and old-- who say the following "you are my whole life, my sole reason for living, I'd die if I didn't have you"
I've encountered alot of such people in my day. So yes, while relationships are important, they are not our purpose on earth. But I can see your point. :)
It is very unhealthy to "need" someone, if you are speaking romantically. You want them, you love them, but if you need them... in my opinion its time to rethink your life philosophy.
I believe that a relationship is an added bonus in life, and that in order to have one, you must first be happy with yourself, and be contented in being alone. Only then should someone enter your life.
Yes... way back in high school.. when I was in the color guard in Marching band, during the state championship. I had a close up on film during half time. :)
No worries.... I'm not going to go off about that. :)
No... I've done alot of changing in the past ten years, from 20 to 30... I used to take alot more from people than I do now. SO in a way I have learned. :)
I don't think you pray to get anything... whatever that may be, you pray to give you strength to endure things, you pray so that others can get well. Basically you pray for strength.
My roommate leads a church group. I am a different religion so I don't go to her group, but those women in her group put prayer requests in for objects, or for money, or whatever... In my eyes that is totally wrong.
In my life I've had to deal with alot of crappy things, and I've learned that you rely on Spirit for strength, for hope.
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