I don't want any children. And any man I am with has to understand that I don't want children-- he has to feel the same way. And yes, that limits the pool of men out there-- but who cares?? I don't NEED a relationship in order to be alive, and if I never have another one its okay. If I get one, then wonderful!! Because the children-issue is a big one. IF you don't agree on the issue, its time to move on.
The "give me a dollar" thread made me wonder-- what are your jobs??
I don't have a paying job. Mine is on barter. In exchange for room and board I help my roommate out at night. She is a post-polio parylized woman from the shoulders down. I work Monday through Fridays, from about 7 in the evening until the next morning. I help her with housework, change her bedpan, walk the dogs, help with the cat, and various other things. Also in the daytime I help out my Mom, who is very sick.
I've never served. However, my father was Army and Navy-- A Vietnam Veteran. He volunteered twice. :) And my best friend (We dated for three years) is in the Army National Guard. While we were dating he served ten months in Iraq-- and yes, I stayed faithful to him. :) We broke up for a different reason earlier this year.
I use it!! I love it!! I have three gmail accounts-- one for regular mail, one for blinky requests that I make for people, and one for those forms you fill out on the internet-- so most of my spam will be sent there.
In all seriousness I'm democratic in views... but what would I do??
First, I'd be carring a knife as well, not a gun (I carry a knife in my pocket everywhere I do)... but if he was an Islamic terrorist, I'd probably show him my breasts, or pull the pants down of whatever guy I'm with. Likely he would stop in his tracks long enough for me to take care of business, one way or the other.
Here is the simplist meal you will ever make BUT it is also one of the TASTIEST... You should try it.
You'll need a crock pot for this one.
YOu'll need about 2 or 3 cans of cream of chicken soup, and one package of boneless skinless chicken breasts. You'll also need some white rice.
Combine soup and chicken into crockpot, turn on high -- IMPORTANT-- DO NOT ADD WATER!!!! after a few hours, add the rice-- I've never measured, but start with 1/2 cup. Let cook, then when rice and chicken are done, serve and enjoy.
If you read through alot of your responses... when you think about it, these are the types of things that parents SHOULD be teaching their kids from a young age. Some-- like many of you-- already DO. But most don't-- sad. :(
I'd love to tell them to finish school and go to college and do things based on how they want THEIR life to be-- NOT on a boyfriend or girlfriend!! I based my first college based upon my boyfriend at the time-- what a mistake!!
Hahaha-- I live in Geirgia, and I have yet to see anyone interested in GEORGIA. Now everywhere else in the us contacts me, but mostly I'm here for the forum. :)
Sorry-- But NO. And if it was a 36 year old woman dating an 18 year old, the answer would still be no. It matters not how mature said 18 year old is, the FACT is that legal or not they are still a child in my eyes.
Well... I'm not of the "mentally stable" of CS like you suggested, however-- Dr. Phil is an example of how COMMON SENSE is lacking in todays society. All he does is dole out common sense advice and the general public calls him a genious.
hey-- I don't cut, but for years I was a biter. Its still a form of self injury, so yes, I can relate. I'll send you the link to a forum I'm on made specifically for people who SI so you can have someone to talk to. :)
Well-- people that have or want children DO turn me away, simply because I don't want children. Someone old enough to be my father DEFINANTLY turns me away. And people that say "I don't know if that interests you or not but if it does and you are not revolted maybe you should contact me" In other words, no self confidence whatsoever.
RE: Do you ever feel invisible
That wouldn't be because of the wonderful reception you gave me the very first time I posted, would it?? Even though you misunderstood me at the time.