Hey, well, i've no intention on getting married until i'm about 35 years old. Want to be completely set on my work career before I get to that point. I would want to get married because I find it a comforting though. She is Irish and the two of us graduated from college this year.
That's true, maybe I shouldn't wait that long to see if anything could work out. The only reason I am reluctant to approach her about it is because we're in the work place and I don't really like awkwardness in the work place. She is a really good looking girl, and I am interested in her but never really thought about it cause we're co-workers.
She's younger than me (21) and we get on quiet well normally. When she asked me those questions, it was quiet and she'd approach me out of the blue and ask me those. I told her already that I planned on getting married eventually, but was waiting for the right girl to come along. She didn't ask me those questions really with the attempt to intimidate me and she's a good looking girl. More than likely, out of most of the management that work in there, she has more common sense than many of them and she does a good job.
I'm planning on moving on from the job soon and get some work within my field. So maybe, when I finish up i'll leave the option to her. Thanks for all the replies guys, it's much appreciated. Kinda a cache 22 in terms of whether or not she's interested or not, but hopefully things will become more obvious
recently started a new job 4 months ago.One of the female shift managers has asked me random questions such as "When and how old do I plan on getting married", "How many children do I plan on having". We were recently on a staff outing and when we were driving along she pointed to a house and said to me "When we get married you have to buy me that house". I'm not exactly the most confident nor straight forward type of guy and i'm not sure what sort of signals I should be picking up from this, please help! :) I just don't want to misread a situation
I'm on this site for about 3 weeks, but find it incredibly hard to come across people my age (Most people are 30 years my senior). Anywho's just though it'd be cool to create a thread, and look forward to chatting with ye if it picks up =]
Hey! Just after reading your thread there- In my opinion it's old Irish attitude that, i've got many different friends of variances of nationalites whom go out with Irish people. I think the main reason it happens is simply put to personal bias and reflection upon other people of your nationality that have affected our country negatively, such as crime rate and living off the social welfare. Alot of people are too close minded to cancel out mindless perceptions rather than try to experience something new. As someone said previously, regardless of what nationality you are, when you go to a different country alot of predjuice is created- believe me, the Irish have a few biased titles to their name abroad :P
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Hey, well, i've no intention on getting married until i'm about 35 years old. Want to be completely set on my work career before I get to that point. I would want to get married because I find it a comforting though. She is Irish and the two of us graduated from college this year.That's true, maybe I shouldn't wait that long to see if anything could work out. The only reason I am reluctant to approach her about it is because we're in the work place and I don't really like awkwardness in the work place. She is a really good looking girl, and I am interested in her but never really thought about it cause we're co-workers.