Big bang theory all the way. If there was a God he or she wouldn't have allowed the attrocities that have happened in the past and also in the present day. How could a God, deity, higher power or whatever else you want to call it idly stand by and watch their creation cause so much pain and suffering to each other. I know there is free will to all men (and women) but that really would be taking it too far. God was just a way for the church (religion) to have power over us and to keep us where they wanted us. Giving to them in other words. Sorry but religion has had its day and its time to move on from the days of stoning women and having witch hunts. After all ... we are not animals. Oh, actually, wait a minute .........
I'm a guy (obviously) and I think any man that expects a woman to go down on him and he won't do the same is pathetic. The majority of times that I have been with a woman I will go down on her first. It's just the way I am. The excuses that men use are so lame, it's dirty, I don't like the taste blah blah blah. If the woman is clean (and I expect a woman to be clean) then there is nothing dirty or unclean about it. The majority of women get great pleasure when a man goes down on them so it's only right that a man should give a woman that pleasure. Especially if he expects a BJ. Give and take ... ever hear of that?
I'm separated and I can assure you that I have no intention of going back to my ex. We separated for a reason. You do hear the odd story about separated couples getting back together but more often than not they stay separated, divorce and finalise things and then carry on with their lives and build a future for themselves and someone new if they so choose. I've had a relationship since my separation that lasted 2 years and I'm not ashamed to admit that I loved that woman more than I ever loved my wife. I know that sounds bad but the bottom line was that myself and my wife were 2 different people and together it didn't work and inevitably the marriage broke down. Also, the feelings we had for each other are definitely gone so the "new" woman doesn't have to worry about that. And another point, if there are children involved there is always going to be some degree of contact between the separated couple. The bottom line is, people separate for all kinds of different reasons but if you are with a person that is separated you have to give your all to the relationship and trust that it will go the way you want it to. We live in a very strange world and all kinds of things happen to people but we have to just carry on, live our life the best we can and hope that we get back the love that we give out. Thinking "what if" will not do you any good. I'm not religious but I do believe in having some blind faith. Sorry for blabbing on so much but I feel strongly about that subject. Wishing all CS members a good one ... :-)
Guys, it was a hypothetical question. I'm single so NO it hasn't been said to me. If you read the bit at the end I siad the reason for it was to find out the calibre of the men on this site. I wasn't looking for a debate. Just a question to see what fellow men think really. Take a chill pill guys.
HarryONeill1978 Forum Posts (4)
RE: ORIGIN OF UNIVERSE: GOD / BIG BANG
Big bang theory all the way. If there was a God he or she wouldn't have allowed the attrocities that have happened in the past and also in the present day. How could a God, deity, higher power or whatever else you want to call it idly stand by and watch their creation cause so much pain and suffering to each other. I know there is free will to all men (and women) but that really would be taking it too far. God was just a way for the church (religion) to have power over us and to keep us where they wanted us. Giving to them in other words. Sorry but religion has had its day and its time to move on from the days of stoning women and having witch hunts. After all ... we are not animals. Oh, actually, wait a minute .........