Not a guy but I would wonder why the person would say "I love you" after so short a time and ask them if they have some co-dependency issues or other issues that they need to discuss....
amahlala: Not a guy but I would wonder why the person would say "I love you" after so short a time and ask them if they have some co-dependency issues or other issues that they need to discuss....
why i love you and have your best interest in my heart...does not mean we are destined to be married...think about all the senarios before u answer....kiss kiss
marss: why i love you and have your best interest in my heart...does not mean we are destined to be married...think about all the senarios before u answer....kiss kiss
I know what you're getting at....there is a difference from being "in love" with someone then "loving them". We all love someone just for the person they are but being in love with someone is a whole nuther ballgame. I think the OP meant, his new girlfriend thinks she is "in love" with him.
marss: why i love you and have your best interest in my heart...does not mean we are destined to be married...think about all the senarios before u answer....kiss kiss
There is love and there is love...I know which is which. How many others do and do not confuse the two?
Guys, it was a hypothetical question. I'm single so NO it hasn't been said to me. If you read the bit at the end I siad the reason for it was to find out the calibre of the men on this site. I wasn't looking for a debate. Just a question to see what fellow men think really. Take a chill pill guys.
Oh yeah right....you couldn't figure out which was your left hand and which side of the monitor was left....That's right... How could I forget, it was all the honeymooners fault....
I'm going out now for a little coupon shopping. I'll bring you cup of coffee back and Jac a cup of tea and get a big 40 ounce cup for myself as I've just had a psychotic experience with a CS member who almost put herself in the looney bin.
trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK8,005 posts
to like/lust....is one thing ....to...really love someone...is complealy diffrent...in my eyes....when i find it....*I* will know.dont ask me how.....perhaps just a gut feeling.....
HarryONeill1978: Guys, it was a hypothetical question. I'm single so NO it hasn't been said to me. If you read the bit at the end I siad the reason for it was to find out the calibre of the men on this site. I wasn't looking for a debate. Just a question to see what fellow men think really. Take a chill pill guys.
i need 2 chill pills...i would be suspicious and proceed with caution and then if i found out she was crazy...i would know i found my special gal and hang onto her...serious i want a crazy miss...
nothing to worry about. means you are going to be meeting the "possible" future in laws soon. funny they happen to pop round for a cuppa when you have just got back from work!!!!!
what you panic about is when after about a month knowing you she comes and says "i have a surprise for you" and shows you a big tattoo with a heart and your name written on her shoulder...............
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
montecito: Oh yeah right....you couldn't figure out which was your left hand and which side of the monitor was left....That's right... How could I forget, it was all the honeymooners fault....
roach666manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK102 posts
i actually had someone who did the exact same thing. to be honest it ruined it for me because i did like the woman but to say i love you so early, well we were enjoying each others company and having a laugh but i didnt have enough time with her to say i love you i just didnt know her enough. it made me feel bad because im not gona say something i dont mean.
Normally is say have reason to concern cause most people know if it is said after a week it isn't really meant, BUT I met my GF at random at a dance one night we got to talking and a week later things heated up REAL quick and we started saying it really soon and im big on that.. Yet it didn't bother me and we've been dating for almost 3 months now and still goin strong in fact getting more serious. So i believe personally its how you take it. She could in fact mean it and Love could be there you just never know its just how you fell about it that matters.
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Guys, if your new girlfriend said she loves you after a week, what would you do?(Vote Below)