A problem are those forum participants who are silent:
Non-verbal
In other circumstances the safeword may not be a "word" at all, which is very useful when the submissive is bound and gagged. In these instances a signal such as dropping a bell or a ball, the snapping of fingers, or opening and closing both hands repeatedly or making three clear and rhythmic grunts as a pre-defined signal to stop or otherwise slow down the scene. There is also a convention of tops to put a finger in the 'bottom' 's hand as a sort of 'check in' when the 'bottom' has become non-verbal, such as may happen as they reach subspace. In this scenario the 'bottom' squeezes the 'top's finger to indicate OK.
Some partners have different gradations of safeword — such as green to mean "OK" or even "harder" or "more," yellow to mean "slow down" or "stop doing that" without stopping the scene, and red to mean "let's stop the scene".
However, I think Lagoona needs a different calibre... besides, him and I, we are more like brothers in arms, we are... ... and you wouldnt fiddle with your brothers goodies, would you?
RE: Slappy Happy Club
Good on'ya.Now lets get down to the nitty gritties:
How would you rate this weekend
in fact
the performance on a scale from
1 = - to - 100 = ???