The issue is not that good men or women are hard to find - They are everywhere... The issue is that everyone's wants and needs are differant and therefore we are all looking for someone that we have a unique connection with.. Honesty is the main key and it's often difficult for some to know or understand the real truth they seek because they want what they have in front of them to be their truth... Because of this people begin to lose themselves to another and unknowingly change who they are to fit the one they are with until finally they are lost and no longer recognizes themself and hurt and pain is formed inside and then blamed on or taken out on eachother... Essentually, noone is wrong or a bad person!! Even "player's" and every other type of individuals has a match somewhere out there waiting find them.. All everyone is truelly seeking is pure honesty within themselves and those around them! That is truelly the only way anyone is going to be able to find thier Love and be genuinely happy :-) Men & Women both!! Just the way I see things...
In my opinion, Noone is perfect, if you truely love someone that means you love thier flaws as well! However, If you find that there is something about the one you love that you would change, it's time to talk to them about it and then you have to follow your heart!! I personally would feel as though they just didn't care about me enough to be more dependable in the aspects you mentioned! I believe that everyone deserves the chance to make right or explain thier actions... That's why honesty in relationships is so important! Noone outside of a relationship is qualified to say one way or the other as to what's right or wrong! My rule is to always communicate, be true to your own feelings & needs and follow your heart as to what to do!
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