It depends on the law of your country.. In my country it's not only illegal but you will commit a crime if you burn a flag or you use a flag in any malicious things..
I don't think i can help you with that..Get in touch with the girl you find attractive and then ask what she like..If you would be comfortable and compatible then you would click together..Go and search for yourself
RE: life is a mirror
one of my favorites quotation i mean