to be happy..?The need to be happy what are your thoughts to the requirements..or is the expectations derived from one self greed..
my thoughts are that happiness..we all want to be happy no real worries or problems..many people will automatically include possessions..ie. money, house ,property etc etc.. Is this happiness...no to me you are sadly mistaken..these are possessions,And sure they may bring you some happiness..but this will be very short lived...before a new possession is required ..to regain that feeling ..Clearly money is not happiness..is a possession..
In marriage/partnership..we all say to find the right partner,..that is this or is that..likes this or likes that...? Is this line of thought ...our expectations..of what we perceive as happiness..?in a partner..do you really think having this partner will end all your fears of being unhappy.. to me it is an expectation..you cannot expect ..happiness..
happiness is what we all seek a humans...but to find happiness I think..only my opinion..It comes from you, your mind set..not from a partner..not from possessions.. to be happy we must first change our impulsiveness your reaction .which causes you to feel a certain way,ie...anger..hurt excited..etc
so the answer to me is in to change the outlook,,expectations..the need for possessions..etc..
as i said my thoughts only...whats your opinion...?
thought for the day.....happiness
some people have all the luck is overcast here a bit..melb..?