think that your statement many...is actually an understatement.. we all seem to put guards up or have expectations of what the next partner should be...
reaction from the action of the hurt previously endured...
hi eagle...I too have known this point of view...am aware of it.. I am not sure of re incaranation..?I do believe we all have a soul.. that is released...when life ceases as human body.. I am not a religious person..main stream religion anyway... but I find truth in the writings of Buddhism..and in there ways... I am currently reading...dalai lama right to happiness.. fantastic book...for one self..this indicates to me.. that in order to live ones life in peace and interanl happiness.. firstly it is how we ...percieve things as an individual ,ones self.. in any given situation.. we are all brought up by parents/carers..these people initiate ..beliefs /morals/guidelines...It is this that initiates a thought process..to what is right and what is wrong..?we react.accordingly..
sometimes these beliefs/morals are not correct..but subconsciously they cause us to react..hence the reaction,,outcome to the situation.. tends to be the same path...same answer.. in order to change the result.. caused by the reaction ..we need to change the line of thought.thought process..to what we perceive as right and wrong...eastern--western as we agree are both different in.. cultures beliefs..some morals..ideals.. this also indicates.. the answers are within yourself ...but firstly we must understand to gain inner peace..peace with our self...we must look our thought process ..and the morals/upbringing..in this life..right from wrong..
which also suggests karma doesn,t play a part in this life..at all.. doesn,t carry on ...very deep subject...controversial one.. may be it does....but ..maybe it doesn't have a good day..
you do live in australia...? kids born in australia..? may I ask ...why you have not approached social security or why they have not be come involved through the tax system like they do to every male her in australia..?
no male her in australia gets away with not paying...child support..? up to age 16,,where then ..they recieve student allowance...?
so how is this so in australia...?unless he is on the dole..?
as you suggested you did not physically meet this person... there is your answer ...itself..a potential mate is not even that until you have physically met several times....
why would you waste your time and effort on a fairy tale ... many men on here are/maybe in some peoples eyes.. potential partners..correct...are you going to do checks on all of them before you,contact.. At what point do you see a person as a potential partner..?
To me there not physically / mentally a potential partner until you actually meet face to face...several times and feel comfortable with each other to want to take it further.. being a partner...
why would you send money to someone you have never physically met..? dont know from a bar of soap..?.as you said you started to ask questions..and at which point you made a decision it was a scam...
but by asking the questions first...physically meeting ..face to face.. is the only way A person can have the potential to be partners..?
my thoughts...at what point do you class potential..?personally .. I like to meet several times see what develops...
hi eagle is the same her in australia...dont have to be married.. live with them 6 months..in a relationship..as defacto...not married.. still entitled to part possesion of the house if owned..or one of them is paying it off..?and superannuation..savings etc.. yes we do have plenty of greed related woman here..who do this sort of thing..?2-3 times..for money.. society...greed.selfish...me me me attitude..
we have all done things...or had experiences that we are not proud off. we have all had relationships.. that for several reasons have been lost..
if you learn by these ..then that is what counts..to delve into the past is pointless.. when you start a new relationship..are we not starting with trying to be open.honest ..to trust one another...?if you are both truthful people being honest..then why ...maybe your own insecurity..?
personally I dont hide from anyone or anything...regard less.. I am not a person to lie...so why would i hide ..or decieve..
for a future partner to do a check...basically telling me she did not believe me in the first place..?so wheres the trust..?
definite goodbye...with me anyway..those who lie always bring them self undone..wont stay hidden. my opinion...anyway..
if she had half a brain...and the body is ok.. she done the dishes...didn,t whinge about the pay.. in the bedroom wow... she can really play... she knows who,s boss..then may be i would say ok..
take my hat off to you..to race the tt..is madness at its best...love it. those riders are incredible..for 75 still to do the things your doing is amazing...you have a good life then..
you must of been a talented rider...bikes have changed a lot now.. think it would of been harder physically when the bikes were less engineered...handling..suspension etc.. you must have a lot of memories from those days..thanks for the interest..
one of the other rides i like on road bike is walhalla..old mining town the other side moe...only had electricity for about 10 years now... good ride twisty,heading in to walhalla..watch out for branches debri from the embankments....can be slippery in colder months..
pub there also welcomes bikes..good meals cold beer..worth a day/wend ride..
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