tulip9 Forum Posts (32)

RE: should women pay on a first date

looks like you guys only understand jokes of each other. No worry I go now (and no need to thank: I already know you appreciate)

RE: should women pay on a first date

Yeah right

Well, then I do assure you: no interest from my side, better now?

RE: should women pay on a first date

I only gave you 10 for that hilarious pic 'cause it's really funny so no reason to let your imagination play jokes with you...

RE: should women pay on a first date

You're very kind. I also suggest Rusty and I bury the tomahawk and may be just ignore each other. Deal, Rusty?

RE: Your Obsession!

unless you're a clown

RE: Your Obsession!

you can see my reply on that "pay" thread really. Also you don't need to take off your hat whilst trying to say I'm missing on something important there: just doesn't fit

RE: Your Obsession!

I meant English. I don't think I could speak any language better than I can speak Russian

RE: Your Obsession!

speak spanish at least as good as I speak Russian (the newest obsession), read more and more classic, get all the different music I heard somewhere that made my heart go faster...

RE: should women pay on a first date

Pardon, but could see no perfect man there...

Also find it strange you recommended the thread to me, I mean it's a funny joke but I don't think should be addressed particularly to anyone

Also don't be so sensible. Dearst tulip is perfect with me just not MY dearest tulip but that's it: surely no offence

RE: should women pay on a first date

If a man gets a woman to go out with him for a meal's or drink's sake there might be something wrong with him...

RE: should women pay on a first date

To Manolito

Although I'm not your dearest I enjoyed pretty much reading your opinion on the matter. Didn't really want to scare anyone on here with describing a possible match

You sound pretty intelligent and I could even suspect you in knowing a few things that women want

RE: Explain your CS name

just love tulips and 9 is my favourate number as I was born on the 9th of the 9th

RE: ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS

never bl**dy knew you speak Italian in Netherlands

RE: ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS

immigrant I meant

RE: ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS

You have to accept openings of borders as people in the whole of EU have to do as well. Everyone has to work harder nowdays to get and keep a good job, so make sure your children are well armed (I mean the education and similar stuff) for the modern times. Can you garantee they would never want to go abroad for business or may be love? Would you be pleased if they wouldn't get a chance to integrate there because they are Maltese? I can understand your fear of certain things but remember no one can be guaranted from anything that life may bring. Sometimes there's a very fragile line that separates an illegal immigrate and a "white" person.

RE: ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS

I'm Russian. Which world country is it to you?

RE: ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS

You sound very conservative for your age. How about me being a teacher of more than a dozen of swiss children? Should their parents complain? I don't mind be ruled by a foreigner as soon as he/she's fair and I don't mind learning from them. Get real

RE: ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS

Exactely what I was talking about. Not only illegal but also legal immigrants (foreigners) take those jobs. So just tell you dislike certain type of foreigners generally

RE: ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS

Happy New Year to you too and na zdorovje! (it was)

RE: ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS

that was funny especially second half when the music slows down

RE: ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS

to Solitare and Cuspofmagic

Just wanted to say I find it great 3 artists exchange their opinions on one page of the forum. Ceers, guys

RE: ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS

I didn't say that borders should be open for everyone. What I'm saying I don't consider myself have the right to judge those people. How about people from Balkan (or other countries) marrying their let say cousins to get to Europe? (real story I heard of). Are they more legal then and are they better people? Do they deserve more to have a chance to integrate into Europe? What I'm saying it is a very sensitive matter and you can't stop people from trying. One thing I find sad is when people hate other people only because they are not like themselves. Being Russian I experienced the attitude a few times here. Is it fair? You can't hate an Asylbewerber because he's an Asylbewerber. You dislike people who are bad

RE: ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS

It's a very difficult question. You can't stop people from wanting to have a better life and it is not up to anybody to decide if they really deserve that or not. Also to "close" somebody for years is inhuman and does not solve the problem. There are different people amongst them too as there're different Swiss, different Russians. It's sickness you can't stop or cure at the moment and the only thing that could make it a little better (only my opinion) were if people responsible for the systems all these illegals have to go through stay human and distinguish from case to case...

RE: should women pay on a first date

Although I do slowly get a feeling Maltese people might meet here for other reasons than dating?

RE: should women pay on a first date

I know there's enough women who share my opinion and if the use of the word heart seems wrong to you in my post, fair enough... Being ingenious to have read I look for marriage... Well, it saves me from few unnesessory contacts I believe and I think this is one of the reasons why people meet here, right?

RE: should women pay on a first date

RE: should women pay on a first date

I agree and I always do so (I mean pretending) and I already had a date where I paid and after that even drove that man arround where I live to show some sightseeings, but then we never saw us again. I told him the reason and he wanted another chance but I just didn't feel like it... I like men showing heart and sorry to say but for me it does feel wrong about a man if he doesn't invite even for a cup of coffee...

RE: should women pay on a first date

I'm sort of wählerisch so most of my rare dates lasts and then when we both were/are happy no one complains in the end...

RE: should women pay on a first date

A man should pay on a first date. After all women mostely STILL earn less than men. Also if he can afford it with no consequences for his purse why not show you're generous? Believe me, women like it (I know none who doesn't). What I was thinking... Though living in Switz get mostely contacted by foreigners and foreigners living in Switz. I think swiss men might feel there's something "wrong" about me

Or those who don't mind paying on a first and so got already too old. Don't wait till you get old, guys

RE: Why does being seperated, have kids, is so hard to accept by some?

I've made the experience once and don't want it again, may be in some more 10-15 years... He had a daughter, I was not allowed to say anything as it was his and not my daughter. Looking after her out of arranged times and one time had to even hear English with a Russin accent is no good for his daughter and different one I could not offer. Also I'd like a family of my own soon and he still pays a lot to his ex. I just don't want these troubles. Am I selfish? May be. But we all are in some ways I believe