This happened to me too. I was the recipient of the "mommy" thing though. Ex bf's little ones were 13 mths and 2 yrs when they came into my life, called me mommy for 2 1/2 yrs. Well, the baby did, the 2 y/o quit when he was almost 3. (He also had a 5 y/o, but Ryan never called me mom, which was fine. But, he NEVER wanted to go to his real mom's to visit. He ALWAYS cried and threw a fit when he had to go. It broke my heart!! ) The dad initiated the "mom" thing though, instead of calling me by my name, he'd address me as "mom". He said I was the only mommy they had. I didn't mind, I had 5 of my own calling me mom, what was a couple more..LOL
I just checked my mail at 4:16 and had mail sent at 4:13 or something like that. The dude says "Hey" and his profile is deleted. I must have scared the crap out of him BEFORE I replied...LOL
Waking up in the morning and knowing my kids are healthy, my pain is tolerable, and coming online and chatting with friends. Moving to a new town, I've not made friends yet, but with spring coming, I hope I will soon. I like to putter around the house, doing chores and such, when I'm not online.
I'm so sorry sweetie to hear about the other children picking on you. It's so sad that other little kids have to be so mean. Just remember you are better than they are, in a way that you DON'T call names, throw rocks, or say hurtful things. I KNOW you are a beautiful child. You are a wonderful little human being. I know it's hard to ignore some of the things people say, but you really need to try. I was picked on when I was growing up because I was always taller than the other kids. My parents never had money when I growing up either so I was picked on about my clothes too. My kids have seen their share of kids picking on them too. These kids that pick on you, they have what is called low self-esteem. They are weaker kids who pick on others. They are not happy with themselves, so this is how they try to make themselves feel good.
These other kids are bullies! Plain and simple! Your Aunt is an awesome person, if you need comfort or advice honey, don't be afraid to go to her.
Hopefully things will get better for you soon sweetie,
I'm not looking right now. Taking a well deserved break. If he stumbles across me, great!! If not, I'm ok with that too! I'm completely comfortable and happy with myself and my life right now.
I've been chatting with a friend of mine for about 1 1/2 yrs. We haven't talked on the phone or even exchanged #'s because neither of us wants to "ruin" the friendship we have. He's my best friend! Other than my niece of course!!
Since we both come from small towns, within 30 miles of each other, we met about a week after chatting online and talking on the phone....he was a sweetie too!!
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RE: What do ya do?
This happened to me too. I was the recipient of the "mommy" thing though. Ex bf's little ones were 13 mths and 2 yrs when they came into my life, called me mommy for 2 1/2 yrs. Well, the baby did, the 2 y/o quit when he was almost 3. (He also had a 5 y/o, but Ryan never called me mom, which was fine. But, he NEVER wanted to go to his real mom's to visit. He ALWAYS cried and threw a fit when he had to go. It broke my heart!! ) The dad initiated the "mom" thing though, instead of calling me by my name, he'd address me as "mom". He said I was the only mommy they had. I didn't mind, I had 5 of my own calling me mom, what was a couple more..LOL