God I sound so fake, but it is only friendly advice. Falling in love is like riding a bike. But like I said, many different levels of love, so just be careful. "Better to have love and lost, than to never have loved at all". Remember
Dude, consider me shallow for the moment, but so far from what I seen..... Deffinetly Highclassdiva and Kaia1114. I am not really into blondes, although Highclassdiva is like WOW! And she doesn't seem to have a bad attitude, although there was no reply with a message I sent, I am not bothered. Like I mentioned in other threads, I am not "Seeking", and I know I wouldn't have a shot at that. Kaia1114, just has a lot to her. Very polite and very beautiful. Ofcourse I don't know much of either of them, which is why I said "Consider me Shallow at the moment". It would be nice to actually talk to someone on here and get to know them pretty well though. From hobbies, to daily activities, to everyday life. But since I haven't got that far, my eyes will do the talking......
I am single, although not so serious about "seeking" yet. For some strange reason, I have the worst luck among anyone when it comes to this. I think it is because people think I am a woman seeking women under Male seeking Female or something. 100% man here, despite my appearance. LOL
Ofcourse there are real ladies out there, but I think sometimes some of us set our standards too high without examining outselves. I can tell you right now, I am on here just to talk and meet some new people without any expectations. Because expectations only feed you the worse of things.
For example,
Let's say you are not a very clean person, who doesn't take care of themself yet wants a woman who looks like a model and is very clean. That cannot work. I say to examine yourself, meet the standards of the one you seek and live life without expectations. For when you do have expectations, even the success of it is only what you expected and nothing more. But let's say it is not a success, then what? You are left with the worst of things and it is then taken out on others or yourself. Love should be experienced, but if it were as you expected, then nothing is left to live. Love is the greatest mystery, as there is no true, solid definition for it.
This is probably the best advice (in confidence) I have to offer to answer this topic question, and if anyone just tries it... Wait, scratch that. If anyone does it, then there will be no way to experience a let down. Keep the desire in your heart, separate truth from false, and let love find you. Good Luck in your search.
I will admit, I have lied when I was younger. Although I think most women can be big liars as well. Let's examine a few things here.
Contacts Pushup bras Implants Hair Dye Makeup High Heels Plastic Surgery
Just to name a few. It is this simple. Sometimes a guy is left with no options, after running into women who take no responsibility for the previous dates she has been on. One mistake is to compare "new people", to "old people". Second, is daydreaming. Men are guilty of this as well, but have found more women often think they will find someone "Perfect". By this, I mean impossible. Let me be mean to this guy, because somewhere over the rainbow, there is a man who is good looking, well endowed, very wealthy who doesn't mind if I sit on my butt all day, does what I say, pampers me, lets me go out, home all the time, is a good father, cooks and cleans, and the list goes on..... Now, not saying all women are like this, but generally you might ask, "What does this have to do with the topic?" Well, when you dream too long, one must live up the lie. I just say, be the example of the standards you set.
And yes, some of you probably don't like me already because I talk too much. I am sorry.
I am very intimidated. I can't take a hint if a female is interested. I am too shy and too selfconcious for my own good. Part of which is because I have been told I do not look "Manly Enough". Which makes me laugh, because a woman sets no standard for what a man is and looks like, only her ideal.
Examining the situation, I would say most of us "Men" are brought up in a feminine way if you live in America that is, or any place similar. To where feelings can get hurt easily and the word "No" goes from being simple rejection, to the most worst possible thing to endure. Atleast from what I analyze from myself and from others, which is just another obstacle to overcome. Because Fellas, our dreams can't come true, women will not flock onto us like a silly rap video.
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