shelbel Forum Posts (77)

RE: Ever Made a Mistake that you couldn't make right?

boy can I relate... I have never wanted to hurt anyone ever but I am cursed with a big mouth and can not keep a secret to save my life not even about me... I feel so bad when I do it but I can not stop myself sometimes. it just pops out I hate myself for it sometimes and want to just have my voice bow removed it really sucks

RE: A Day at School 1963 vs. 2006

I feel this one for real my sons school basically told me either medicate him or home school him! it really sucks

RE: What does a person do if they think they have fallen for someone but......

feel your pain... what do you do if they live in a nother dimension?

RE: would you

maybe thats all u want cause risk of heart break is too much to handle again... but like I said the disease factor totally out weighs now... so its off to Pricilla's i spose

RE: Ever Feel Like....

everyday at work.....

when told never should be less than two people in store at all times and always have to have someone at the front to watch door but we need to cut ten hours this week when u were only allowed 182 to begin with... and although your store is open five hours more than all the other stores ( total 75.5 hrs) in your district you get the same hours as they get based on our "Matrix" which is based on a certain amount of sales $ and all 4 manager have to get 40 hrs but you are required to have a lead sales associate and ten part timers at all times as active employees (working at least one day per schedule) and we want you to complete a floorset in three days while processing 20 boxes of shipment each day and waiting on every customer with our ten steps 1 greet 2 non related conversation 3 suggest promo 4 suggest accessory 5 suggest item in fitting room 6 check on as they leave fit room 7 suggest shoe 8 suggest cologne and gift card 9 suggest store credit card and get 10% off 10 thank you and good bye. Also make sure you are getting all paperwork completed every day
oh and did I mention both your DSL and dial out systems are down all day so you will have to call in to the credit card verifying company for every credit/debit card while talking to help desk trying to get system working properly

RE: Ever Feel Like....

everyday at work.....

when told never should be less than two people in store at all times and always have to have someone at the front to watch door but we need to cut ten hours this week when u were only allowed 182 to begin with... and although your store is open five hours more than all the other stores ( total 75.5 hrs) in your district you get the same hours as they get based on our "Matrix" which is based on a certain amount of sales $ and all 4 manager have to get 40 hrs but you are required to have a lead sales associate and ten part timers at all times as active employees (working at least one day per schedule) and we want you to complete a floorset in three days while processing 20 boxes of shipment each day and waiting on every customer with our ten steps 1 greet 2 non related conversation 3 suggest promo 4 suggest accessory 5 suggest item in fitting room 6 check on as they leave fit room 7 suggest shoe 8 suggest cologne and gift card 9 suggest store credit card and get 10% off 10 thank you and good bye. Also make sure you are getting all paperwork completed every day

RE: Bad Jokes!

took me a couple minutes

RE: Do you believe.....

I knew two boys in school who said even their own mom got them confused still even in high school

RE: dating

maybe cardsfan23 or bench-tech
or both at same time

my EX best friend

well yea it was obvious duh. and I tried to tell him many times that there is nothing he could do that would make me not love him unless he intentionally tried to hurt me or my family. I have told him I would not judge him for anything he does and I have had about four different gay friends that he has met and even dated a girl myself for a brief time. I am a good friend went all say from NC to MD to move his stuff in same day he asked me to go and also work off clock all the time just to make him look good at work.

my EX best friend

I never said I tell everyone I just told the one girl and it was something concerning her...

my EX best friend

I not upset that he is gay heck we just been waiting for him to realize it anyway... we always knew... i just upset that he mad that I know...

my friend

I posted a thread earlier about my friend and I don't think it was understood. I had to leave for a few hours unexpectedly so I did not get to stay to here the comments .......
This is the situation

I met my friend when he was 17 and I was 20. Yes when I met him I thought he may be gay and I have never cared about that kinda stuff. I have had many gay friends and I don't really care one way or the other. Anyway he has always stood firm that he is NOT GAY and me as well as his other female only friends have always defended him when people say that he just has to be. I have told many people that he says he is not and until he says otherwise then that is what I will believe.
Anyway I stated I am not the best secret keeper however the only secrets I have told are things like... I was being moved to a different store and I was told not to tell anyone until they offered my position to this girl Jen, but I told the girl who they were going to offer my position to ( cause I wanted to make sure she was offered a fair amount) before they asked her so she would be ready.
also there was an instance where boss/friend told me of a rumor he heard bout our DM being a lesbian and I told Jen that time too because she and I had already talked about how we thought she might be. But I have never told anything that was anything personal about him or anything...
So far as him being afraid to tell me or thinking I would judge him... well that is just stupid because he knows of a few times that I have had a few experiences of my own. I had a girl that I went out with a few times and he even went with us one of the times. so if I have experimented and and explored why would I care if he did?

So far as remaining his friend I really don't see possible because he has been a total hypocrite for this whole last year... making derogatory comments about a gay girl that we work with for one. Riding me non stop about a relationship I was in with a married man and how when you know God does not approve of something there is no excuse for doing it. That God was clear that adultry is wrong no matter what and I have to just let it go and admit I am wrong and Trust God to take care of me. (even tho the married guys wife is completely aware and that atleast 30% of my income is from this man)
So far as the kinda friend I am... lets explore that avenue I am the friend he called the only one he called to go with him from NC to Baltimore MD to help him pack up his entire apartment and bring it back all in one day... He asked me to go three hours before he was leaving to go there. I had a 4 yr old son who I got a sitter for last minute and also paid my bro in law to go as well to help us. we got there and he laid down for a few hours while I packed up every thing from his kitchen bathroom and living room that was not big furniture. Also my bro in law and me carried and entertainment center his sofa and loveseat and a dresser from the spare room and the spare room bed down two flights stairs (he was on third floor) to load it in the moving truck in the pouring down rain all before he even woke from his nap. All he ended up doing was his bedroom. then I drove half of the way back. Two months later when I asked for his help moving he didn't even answer his phone!

my EX best friend

I have recently been suspecting that my best friend of ten years who is a guy has been keeping something from me. I just finally confirmed my suspicions... he is gay and has been seeing someone for almost a year! I am known for not being a very good secret keeper so I kinda understand the secrecy... however he has been lying to me for a year. Everytime I ask him to hang out or whatever he lies and says he has plans with his brothers or his family. He now knows I know and is angry with his other best friend/ roomate because he thinks she told me. He has completely shut us both out and will not even discuss this with us. I am totally distraught and just plain hurt that he is willing to throw away our ten years for this guy who he has been hiding for only a year. And if he cares for this guy so much why is he keeping it a secret? Its not like anyone cares about whether he is gay or not. I have had several friends in the past that he has met that were gay and so has his roomate.

RE: what would be a good movie to rent for valentines day...

50 first dates is one of my all time favorites
also Love Actually Eternal Sunshine is excellent Notebook is awesome Forces of Nature The Way We Were Just Like Heaven Moulin Rouge ( WoW! )

RE: What your view on weed

I think it should be legal too. I had a friend who said that he went to spain as a exchange student one year and it was legal there and that it was a lot better there as well because they took care of it and had the money to invest in making it less harmful and better tasting. Now a days it is just too expensive and anything that isn't expensive will taste like dirt and gag you to death. I can't afford good stuff and lungs won't tolerate the cheap stuff so I just don't anymore... unless it is free good stuff! which never happens of course.

RE: I have Tears this time.. is it sense of humor?

Comments such as no one has right to say something hurtful almost made me choke. In this country you do. You have the right to say whatever you want it is called freedom of speach. People do it all the time. there are magazines that devote huge sections to doing just this thing insulting peoples appearances. Do's and Don'ts and worsed dressed articles... Yea its not very nice but we as a country have become so completely desensitized to it is all. I mean the girl who made the post chose her own name to be "Fat Brunette" I am sure she did not mean anything mean by it she calls herself Fat for pete sake! She just made an observation and a suggestion. Prolly meant to be funny but because he did not like it it is construed as being rude or mean... Geeze I have been told on too many occassions to count that my hair was not hitting on much or that i apparently ain't been going hungry lately cause my butt so big. Been told I might wanna let my eye brows grow a little cause they was being plucked to nothingness. or asked if I been getting dressing tips from a dike cause I was wearing a guys shirt and no make up and hair not fixed. I really think she was simply speaking before thinking that someone might actually get hurt. We all have things about us someone may not like but if you like it then why even stress about it?

RE: Ok ppl lets start partyin

how wow... I made a little video of my son when he was born and it is to that song. it was my favorite because it talks of fighting ur way back from the dead and getting better when ur older and being my living proof that my love is alive... it just really hit home when he was born because of all the complications that occured and anyway it always makes me cry ... beautiful song. luv it

RE: Ok ppl lets start partyin

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RE: who wants to meet me! lol

u look like a boy that works at pac sun I know hey wait a minute is that u?

RE: Ok ppl lets start partyin

u guys ever watch the buttons video? ( ft snoop dog) way hot

RE: Ok ppl lets start partyin

i am sore just thinking bout it!

RE: Ok ppl lets start partyin

mmmmmm smack this anytime you like and anywhere! i love the drink slow comfortable screw, but is there an opposite drink?

RE: Honestly, Gabrielle Union could be the most beautiful woman in my world?

google images... miracle invention...

RE: Honestly, Gabrielle Union could be the most beautiful woman in my world?

she is hot I agree... Ryan Dunn has a similar effect on me ... can't explain but mmmm yummy.

RE: Ok ppl lets start partyin

luv body shots

RE: Names needed

Elijah is my favorite but Stew is definitely my 2nd pick

RE: does online diminish real life?

I just like having some friends to chat to when I can't go out. I don't get to go out often. My son only goes to his dad one day a week and I work that day most times and I am always broke and then there is no where in this sleepy town to go and if I go to the nearest cool place it is so far away I am afraid to drink because of possible tickets or wrecks so then I am so nervous I end up leaving within and hour of arriving so might as well stay home online.

RE: Would you go out on a date

I like one to make my toes curl too... but I also like one to make me squeal! I like it all. a speeding bullet it a nice encore to a intense night.

RE: Would you go out on a date

get to rowing ur oars then i'll be sipping on my glass til then