It puts me off if a woman has children. If you are going to get involved, then you have to except the children too, which is totally understandable. In the past I have taken on 5 different women and childs and made good friends with the children, But when the relationship has come to an end, the children have become an extension of the mothers feelings, and most children will automaticly side with mum. Thus teaching the child if mum dont wanna be with boyfriend anymore, then neither do the children. This to me is unexceptable, so I would not want to get involved with a woman that has children. This is very emotionly painfull for a man.
Some 16 years ago I went to bed and fell asleep only to find myself firstly floating, looking down smiling at myself above my bed,then secondly I found myself going up THE tunnel with a brilliant white all loving powerfull light at its end,with a very clear presence/feeling of CHRIST (i have no religion by the way), I then realised that there was another light being with me, guiding and helping me, I was then spoken to by a voice that asked me if I was happy to go into the light or would I like to come back to earth and complete my LIFE TASK, I had no idea of my so called life task, but was told what it was! I choose to come back and in a flash I found myself waking up and was having a full blown asthma attack, covered in sweat, but so relaxed I felt, it just went away and have never had an asthma attack since. But the main thing is I find life very hard since that day, KNOWING that there is a amazing place to go when we die, I often want to go back, to the HOME of souls,and at some point we all will, I know.
THERE IS A THING SUCH AS SOUL CONTRACT,MOST PEOPLE DONT KNOW WHY OR WHAT THERE CONTRACT IS, BUT IT ALL BECOMES VERY APPARENT WHEN YOU DIE, OR GET BROUGHT BACK AFTER YOU HAVE DIED, (N.D.E).
I dont see a problem with how many people you have slept with in the past,but I do see a problem with someone that has learned nothing from the experiences. All relationships are growth towards the light, so one needs to be aware of what it is that needs to be learned!! (NOT UNCONSCIOUS).
Is there anyone here that beleives that we are all 100% responsible for everything that happens to us?? And when we truly LOVE ourselves, everything in life works.
LOVE IS ENDURING AND PATIENT AND KIND IT JUDGES ALL THINGS WITH THE HEART NOT THE MIND AND LOVE CAN TRANSFORM THE MOST COMMONPLACE INTO BEAUTY AND SPLENDER AND SWEETNESS AND GRACE FOR LOVE IS UNSELFISH GIVING MORE THAN IT TAKES AND NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS LOVE NEVER FORSAKES ITS FAITHFULL AND TRUSTING AND ALWAYS BELIEVING GUILELESS AND HONEST AND NEVER DECEIVING.
RE: does it put men off when they find out that a women has a child or children?
It puts me off if a woman has children. If you are going to get involved, then you have to except the children too, which is totally understandable. In the past I have taken on 5 different women and childs and made good friends with the children, But when the relationship has come to an end, the children have become an extension of the mothers feelings, and most children will automaticly side with mum. Thus teaching the child if mum dont wanna be with boyfriend anymore, then neither do the children. This to me is unexceptable, so I would not want to get involved with a woman that has children. This is very emotionly painfull for a man.