I would fight anyone in sports who cheats to win, whether it is steroid use or whatever. I have a son in sports, i tell him to do it with blood, sweat, tears, or don't do it at all. Very few good role models now days.
He just sounds way to clingy, you seem like you are looking for some adventure in your life. Do you always want this emotiomal leech clinging to you. You are just a kid, take some time in your life to explore the world. Don't waste it trying to determine what relationship you should or should not be in. Peace and Serenity, Lionheart
RE: two word add on part III
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