Man trouble ( Archived) (27)

Ok, I really need your honest opinions about my problem. See my problem isnt that Im lonely or desprate to find a guy, my problem is that I have too many! Now I know alot of u dont see this as a problem, but it is. This one guy I met online (not here), and things seem to be going well between us, We like the same shows, can talk for hours, both are very family oriented........but sometimes I wonder if things are going too fast....he has already started talking about spending the rest of our lives together, and its only been 2 weeks! Then my friend wants to set me up wit her friend who is apparently well off financially, tall, and very caring. And then there is this other guy who I have had a crush on for a long time. Oh, AND my ex bf wants to get back with me! What do I do? And what makes all this worse is that my life always goes through cycles like this......I may be single and really lonely for months, and then one day WHAM, three or four guys want my attention.

This guy wants to spend the rest of his life with you after knowing you for 2 weeks. Run away!!!! That is creepy, please be careful

LOL......yeah thats kinda the impression Im getting 2.......thanx 4 ur concern, I will be very careful.

He just sounds way to clingy, you seem like you are looking for some adventure in your life. Do you always want this emotiomal leech clinging to you. You are just a kid, take some time in your life to explore the world. Don't waste it trying to determine what relationship you should or should not be in. Peace and Serenity, Lionheart

Stay focused young grasshopper. Let me tell you the dangers of them all.

*Ahem*

Ex - is for a reason

Sugar Daddy (Finances) - Make sure you are not a trophy, some people can't appreciate the value of a dollar - If you catch my drift

2 Week Wonder - is too needy, not certain but makes rash decisions, which can often lead to a weak man who is not a man of his word

The Crush - You may find out things may have changed. Perhaps it is a lust, and once obtained, cannot survive the test of time.

My advice. You set your standards and settle for nothing less. Many men will come to you, and many times of desperation will submerge, although you do not lose focus, and you live by example of what you want to accomplish, and who you want to spend the rest of your life with. Wether you met them before or not. It matters not. Just stay focused and never take the easy way out. You will find it is more trouble you are putting yourself in.

Ok, I agree they all have thier flaws......no one is perfect, but I think u r right......I need to set better standards. Thanx Stranger

Anytime

You can always become a nun ... problem solved ... ok i'm not helping ,my bad