hey there i am a teenager and i gave my parents the time of life when i hit my teens and you know what i found out................... my parents are tough and i fought and fought and i lost over and over until i came to the realization that i live here and what they have to tell me is not always right but it leads me to the right path for me. but if want some advice from a broken teen to a parent............. never give in.... constant consistence no matter what they did if they broke the rules then you punish them no matter the excuse and the number one is no privacy if they live in your house and they eat your food and they were your cloths they have no privacy. it works i know i am a trater to all teens when i say it. and to all of you parents that want to be a friend instead of a parent stop grow a backbone and do what needs to be done. because if its not done it could hurt the kid and it will hurt you because you will always feel guilty.............
when you look into violence there are only a few reasons that make it possible for the normal sane human being. food shelter of an individual and the number one is the food shelter and the well being of children. all of these things are instinctual and due to the evolution and brain washing of society violence has became more. it has become a release because it is against the law and considered wrong... i mean when you are rolling down the highway and you make a turn off so that you are on a road that no one travels and its straight and there inst a cop to be seen.. if you are like me and there isn't anyone else with you. you punch the gas and go as fast as you can because you can, and you get that sort of high because of wrong that you have done.
i also thinks its how you look at this whole thing if you put your heart into it insted of seeing it as a dating site and nothing more.
plus if it excels to talking on the phone then i usually ask ?s that tend to be hard to answer so that it might be easier to find a lie but its always hard to tell if someones lieing with all the anemety that is present with online dating.
i have been on this site for a long time and i have only met one person to whom the conversation has never stopped. i have tried to see her but she lives in washington and i live in illinois so the distance has made seeing one another difficult. but we talk weekly on the phone for about a year and a half and i have a good family friend who found his wife on the internet.. i look at it as you never know and keep moving on day to day.
what i usually do is keep a thought book cause allot of times my mind just doesn't shut down so i write anything that comes to mind until i get tired of reading what i have written.... i know sounds dumb but it works
blue_belak Forum Posts (12)
RE: How long have you been a member of this website?
i have been on this site for about 2 years maybe more and i have had a total of three dates... all of which didn't work out.