TestMyHeartBetween London and Windsor, Ontario Canada3 Threads14 Posts
TestMyHeartOPBetween London and Windsor, Ontario Canada14 posts
How many out there have teenagers ??? And how many of you felt like throttling them cause they tend to drive you nuts sometimes ???
I have a 15 yr old daughter that thinks she's 18 , and decided that since she's become one that she shouldn't have to do any more chores and have a curfew , and then wants to constantly spend the night away so she can have FUN with her friends . It's too bad that we can't take their voice boxes out sometimes lol .
MiddyYorkshire, North Yorkshire, England UK74 Posts
MiddyYorkshire, North Yorkshire, England UK74 posts
My 2 eldest are both in their teens. The eldest can be a nightmare at times & thinks it's ok to come up withexcuses for pretty much anything. The other one is so laid back & placid.
Two sons living with me. 18 and 21. They went through their phases and now are both nice young men. Both work hard and are 'slowly' achieving their goals.
TestMyHeart: How many out there have teenagers ??? And how many of you felt like throttling them cause they tend to drive you nuts sometimes ???
I have a 15 yr old daughter that thinks she's 18 , and decided that since she's become one that she shouldn't have to do any more chores and have a curfew , and then wants to constantly spend the night away so she can have FUN with her friends . It's too bad that we can't take their voice boxes out sometimes lol .
Someone posted a thread about throttling their cat. One peice of advice was to shoot it, have you tried that?.
Seriously the child is breaking from the nest and will soon begin their own life. There are points in a childs life when they are ready to change, and those are times to help them on their way. It is somewhat simular to toilet training, if you catch the right point it is a much easier transition betwine stages. I realy can not say or know the proper responce for your child but would approach the situation from the perspective of treating them as an adult and helping them grow into that situation.
Let her know that at sixteen the allowance ends and she will get a job, the chores should continue untill she has a job. The law in most places has a curfew that makes you responcible for her indiference (good luck).
Dennis ( I wish you luck with making anything that I have said work, and keep in mind that the only responsibility to your children is to give them the opportunity to survive , hopefully that is started at a younger age than fifteen).
TestMyHeart: How many out there have teenagers ??? And how many of you felt like throttling them cause they tend to drive you nuts sometimes ???
I have a 15 yr old daughter that thinks she's 18 , and decided that since she's become one that she shouldn't have to do any more chores and have a curfew , and then wants to constantly spend the night away so she can have FUN with her friends . It's too bad that we can't take their voice boxes out sometimes lol .
I have 16 year old twins...my son...I have never really had a need to want to throttle him because he's pretty laid back and has a good head on his shoulders...My daughter on the other hand...is another story.....I have wanted to commit murder on more than one occasion and yes voice box removal sounds like a good alternative!!!!!!!!!!!!
I know nothing...she knows everything and I have never learned a thing in my 40 years on earth!!!!!!!!
alabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA4,404 posts
There are no answers to raising teenagers, you tough it out, do the best you can which will never be good enough, and keep the hope alive that they do grow up eventually.
I understand the saying now, grandchildren are your reward for not killing your kids!
TestMyHeart: How many out there have teenagers ??? And how many of you felt like throttling them cause they tend to drive you nuts sometimes ???
I have a 15 yr old daughter that thinks she's 18 , and decided that since she's become one that she shouldn't have to do any more chores and have a curfew , and then wants to constantly spend the night away so she can have FUN with her friends . It's too bad that we can't take their voice boxes out sometimes lol .
i raise my daughter myself
althought my daughter is older than teenager (22) once she used to be a teenager
morganlee: between the age of 15yrs and 19yrs can honestly say i didn't like my daughter much, loved hey yes, but
she is stong willed and we fought like cat and dog! Then as she got older the relationship changed again
can say she is my best friend. She has her own daughter now and she her bringing her up
instilling the same values as i did with her, interesting to watch
That's wonderful. You know people talk about hearing themselves say things to their kids that their parents said to them. IT doesn't bother me at all. My mom was a great mother. I'm proud to walk in her footsteps.
Even though Em is almost 13, I've been thinking about maybe having another one while I still can, if I can. And then it hits me that my mom won't be there this time. And that's so hard for me and really a weird thought to me to think of having a child and my mom not being a part of it's life. It would miss so much. It makes me sad.
Much better, thanks. Most of the soreness is gone and I'm hoping the nerve pain will be back to normal in another day or two. Getting better every day! Thank you for asking.
dcj22: Much better, thanks. Most of the soreness is gone and I'm hoping the nerve pain will be back to normal in another day or two. Getting better every day! Thank you for asking.
Have 18 years son,he is 18 only from a few days,and I know it was very hard time for the last 4 years,hope now he will feel more like an adult...Lol But then have 12 years old daughter,so there we go again...hehe could be even worse with that one....
lola36: Have 18 years son,he is 18 only from a few days,and I know it was very hard time for the last 4 years,hope now he will feel more like an adult...Lol But then have 12 years old daughter,so there we go again...hehe could be even worse with that one....
My youngest brother had a hard time in his teens, there was a lot of pain for everyone in the family. He has since grown up to be a good person. I am sure your child will do the same.
Dennis ( you can only do what you can, time will help with the rest)
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I have a 15 yr old daughter that thinks she's 18 , and decided that since she's become one that she shouldn't have to do any more chores and have a curfew , and then wants to constantly spend the night away so she can have FUN with her friends . It's too bad that we can't take their voice boxes out sometimes lol .