I do not like having a long distance relationship.
This is my philosophy in getting to know someone:
You never truly know someone until you've seen them flip out, go crazy mad, be totally upset, hurt, happy, cheerful, crying, in mood swings, be pushed to their limits, fight for what they believe in, and give up.
Not once have I ever asked for money from anyone. And when they do offer me money...I don't take that either. I tell them that I need to meet them first. Then they run
I just want to thank you all for your encouragement. I still have not given up on my search for true love and happiness.
Oh...by the way...NO, I have not sent anybody any money. The only thing I have given is some of my life story to some. I am learning to hold back on what I say to people now.
Why is it so hard to find someone that is not going to drop a bomb on you when your trying to get to know them and to start a relationship? I have had 4 out of 6 contacts that want money from me. On top of that...I have never met them in the first place. It is sad and unappreciative to open myself up and get slapped in the face by scammers.
RE: Is anyone really serious on these sites or just a bit of fun???
I am seriously looking.Not into head games.