The headers across the top of my screen seem to be indicating that I have mail and flowers, but when i click on them there is no mail or flowers, which makes me feel very sad! Is anyone else getting the same thing? There are red boxes around them for those who are not aware)
Pictures for us Ugly Guys = Woman Repelant, we may as well right in our profile who want's a F**k and have done with it, both methods produce the same results. Unfortunatly, although we portray ourselves (ladies) as 'Caring', 'Sensative' 'Loving' looking for the same, the sad fact is, that the first thing that people do is look at the picture, many will go no further, most will move straight on. So that caring, sensative, loving side of us has a night off when it comes to dealing with us Lesser mortals.
Sadly All the good men are sitting at home writing their socks off to women on dating sites only to get knock back after kknock back or our efforts ignored. It seems to me that women are naturally attracted to Bast***s. why I know not. Maybe it's the danger, the excitement. All I know is I keep plugging away night after night and am getting nowhere fast. Maybe guys (i'm talking to all the good ones out there, we should take the approach of the players and Bast***s.
Hey, I must be a fool, it's just turned 8am here in the UK. the ladies are up and out of bed and my mail box has started to get busy! Just like a big kid, so impatient, lesson to be learned me thinks!
Another boost to my confidence when 2 very beautiful women, blancalatina and Lightening stop to take the time to reply to my post. I think I'm filling up!
OK guys, you did 3 things, you made me smile, you reasured me that there is some depth to people and you gave me good advice, i shall lurk in the halls and corridors of the forums to see what joy it brings me. Thanx
Maybe my profile 'says' looser, maybe I don't have enough sweet talk in there, maybe I don't earn enough money, or maybe it's because i'm a bit of a minger. Many woman say they like a man with a sense of humour, I try to make my initial contact as light hearted and as humerous as possible. For whatever the reason I find that over 90% of women I contact do not reply.
I don't know but I suspect that it's that age old conceit thing "I'm far to good for them, I can't even be bothered to acknowledge they exists" either that or it's bone idleness, either way it's rude, it's not attractive and I truly hope you meet the partner that you deserve!
For those who have been through bad relationships where you are treated like the crap on someones shoe remember what that felt like, because all the peaople out there who are making the effort to contact you are probably feeling something like that when you don't respond, even if it's a polite, thank you but no thanks.
I have had a couple of replies, one basically said, nice to here from you would love to talk more but coronation street is on.........Some episode of Corrie that must have been, a week has almost passed and i've heard nothing. If you are serious about finding friends and dating then turn off the telly and put some effort in to it. Of course the one thing I haven't considered is that this whole thing may just be an ego trip for some people, unfortunatly they may be the very same people i am attempting to contact.
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Mail and Flower Boxes
The headers across the top of my screen seem to be indicating that I have mail and flowers, but when i click on them there is no mail or flowers, which makes me feel very sad!Is anyone else getting the same thing? There are red boxes around them for those who are not aware)