Any girls from chillicothe or close by area's that would like to chat with a great guy or hangout sometime. I just moved back here and just trying to find new friends and see where it goes.
Do something that you know she will enjoy. But to where you can talk to her and get to know her for her. Go for a walk and sit down in the grass by the river and chat or something simple. You don't need an expensive date to get to know each other. A lot of people like to go to the movies. Which you can't even talk and if you do it's annoying. Same with most other places. Tbh coffee is lame and most older people enjoy doing that. But most younger people would rather do other types of things. Just gotta find their interest.
It's because we find girls who we think are beautiful and sweet and our mind wants them while they want the guy that they think they can change. So we get friend zoned and stuck choosing what we can find or nothing at all. But when they get hurt they always come back to us in tears to talk and then still over look us and go for the next guy that wont care about her. I just gave up on the concept of ever finding her. They all play games with us and are like "Hey I want that guy who is sweet and caring and shows that he loves me." Yet when they get him and he is talking they are like "oh he is fake and to sweet - friend zoned." Bro keep your head up and let her find you. If she is worth keeping she will walk into your life and take your hand. Finding her is risking the chance of destroying who you are inside
There is a fine line between playing hard to get and letting a guy know that your interested. If you play hard to get and do things like not return calls or ignore text just to see if he is interested enough in you to keep trying. Then a lot of guys will walk away.
But if you show them that you are interested in them. But not over interested in them and keep it in check a guy will chance you if he thinks that he stands a chance. Even more so if he thinks that you might make a good mate.
LOL If it finds a great girl and all. I am game. ijs :P Most guys are douches and only think with their c*ck. But there are some really great guys out there.
Me and my ex were together for 6 months. When I met her she lived in a rough little house that was falling a part and at that time I was doing dry wall. She wasn't a barbie. But she was really sweet and had a great heart. So I gave her a chance and brought her into the house I owned. When we split up I left her with everything house,car all of it. I only took my clothes. Items mean nothing you can't take them with you. But the person that you are will always be there and be remembered. But just in my experience and not saying that all are like this. But most girls that people refer to being barbies just have bad and spoiled attitudes. I'd rather a country girl who has a heart of gold even if she has some meat or is a twig. It's whom she is on the inside not what she is on the outside. So don't think that every guy just wants a barbie doll. That's media bolox. They want females to think that you have to look like barbie which isn't very healthy.
Lol I mentioned my grandpa which passed away in 1993. But yes females seem to love to be close to their families. While guys generally don't care when they can build their own family.
I am 30. I am not "perfect" But I do take great pride on being the best possible guy that I can be or as my family says. "Your a spitting image of your grandpa".
Xander1983 Forum Posts (17)
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Any girls from chillicothe or close by area's that would like to chat with a great guy or hangout sometime. I just moved back here and just trying to find new friends and see where it goes.