i agree be very careful who you forgive. i myself am trying to find it in my heart to forgive someone. it's a day to day struggle for me. i've just gotten to the point that i'm tired of beating my head up against a wall with them. they had a good thing and they lied and cheated on it. so i may at some point totally forgive them, but that day hasn't come yet. but i've learned that i can't feel guilty about their actions anymore, they made a choice to screw things up they deal with the consequences awaiting them. their issue not mine. they know what will happen to them if i find they lie to me again. and i don't care what they say or think, there will be consequesnces
why do people you think you know change? have you ever changed yourself and maybe you don't notice it but the one you love does? is this a stupid question?
RE: Forgiveness
i agree be very careful who you forgive. i myself am trying to find it in my heart to forgive someone. it's a day to day struggle for me. i've just gotten to the point that i'm tired of beating my head up against a wall with them. they had a good thing and they lied and cheated on it. so i may at some point totally forgive them, but that day hasn't come yet. but i've learned that i can't feel guilty about their actions anymore, they made a choice to screw things up they deal with the consequences awaiting them. their issue not mine. they know what will happen to them if i find they lie to me again. and i don't care what they say or think, there will be consequesnces