No, you didn't make me pessimistic, what you said is right, I need to back off a little I think, I may be a little over keen seeing that she is so close.
Mosquito repellents don't repel. They hide you. The spray blocks the mosquito's sensors so they don't know you're there. Also, the powder on the bark of a quaking aspen tree works as a mosquito repellent.
Well I left 3 messages to her today and one flower message with a rose, one message has been opened, the other 2 have not, so I guess the answer has been revealed.....Thank you to all that have replied, I really appreciate it.: sad_flower:
Yes, that's the key, relax and be yourself, my messages will be just that, I needed some other opinions and I received them, I feel much better now and have a little more direction....or do I??
Thank you lovemedofr, I am not allowing myself to become attached romantically, at this point, though I easily could, but I was hurt before by an online relationship and vowed never to do that again, it's meet and see what happens for me now, at this close distance anyway.
I may be expecting to a meeting to soon, so with your advice along with very good advice from our fellow posters, I have many option to follow.
Thanks mate, your comment about a phone call like three days ago were my thoughts to, but on the line of hey, let's have a coffee in a public place and meet face to face, and yes, you are the second person that has commented on the closeness of the area. That doesn't bother me, but may bother her.
You just have to take your hat off to people such as this man, I have played guitar for over 50 years, not well, but good enough to do what I love doing as a hobby.
To play if I had no arms, is something I would not even consider. Well this man does just that, and what's more, the song he played, says a hell of a lot about the mans' courage, spirit, character, and belief in his own existence, and the people around him.
Yes, that's why I have avoided that approach, not from my view but from her view, and there are phyco's out there as we all know. So time and gentle conversation seems to be be the best approach, with a little about myself each time.
Thanks NAB, giving her time is not a problem and your view from a females point of view is very valuable,all of it, and it' makes sense. One thing I didn't mention, is that she does not reply to simple questions, such as, tell me a little about..."whatever the subject may be" nothing personal, just everyday stuff, but as you say that could be fear from being rejected by me.
One for the mature, genuine and experienced people,
I have been chatting with a lady for a little over 2 weeks, we've exchanged pleasantries, I sent flowers etc. and all the normal brief messages, and she has shown interest, the thing is, we live in the same area, so a meeting would only be 5 minutes away, however she seems, (my thoughts) reluctant to meet, but keeps telling me that we should meet soon...
Friendship is first, but you can only go so far on line for that friendship to grow,(he who says this, and been really hurt by a long distance on line relationship) and anything above friendship is a bonus, but only comes from nurturing, time and spending time together.
Mmmm who knows, I've seen so many youtube videos posted seemingly authentic, turn out proven be a hoax, and with all the computer video editing software around now, and with clever editing it's marvellous as to what can be achieved.
However, the clip is very interesting, as are most clips with the explained.
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I've been out of this game for to long and way out of touch,
Yep It's A Dictator
My memories evident..