lookin4ashoulder Forum Posts (11)

RE: What can be done when a teenager whines, to try and stop it?

good advice sunset, i can see that you are a natural at raising kids

i think i am one who is not, but one thing i've learned with my teenager (16) is that she is complicated, yet needs some very simple things...boundaries and support and most of all someone to listen to her...

if you are new to single parenting, it may be that you are the problem,,,don't take me wrong, but you may be more sesitive because of all that you've been through recently

if you've been at it for a while, you may just be fried

either way, give yourself a break, do something just for you and then you will feel refreshed and have some new insight for handling behaviors and issues

oh, a glass of wine or 3 helps sometimes as well...

good luck

a

RE: Hear The Drum

IceKrystal,

hello

i like it, a lot, i'd love to hear it if you care to send the link

ann

RE: Capital punishment...

wht do you mean?

RE: When she dosnt have much to say.

If i can be honest, yes, probably she is not interested

but not necessarily because you are not interesting....

maybe just way too busy, or feels you are too far apart, or too much of an age difference, or maybe she's just plain rude........

RE: Capital punishment...

I think that there are people who do things so terrible that almost everyone would agree that they should not be allowed to live...the problem with capital punishment is that there is no way to make it completely fair, simply because of the nature of human beings. Look at Texas......

interesting topic btw

RE: who's taken and who's not taken

it sounds like you are having a sad day, but remember those feelings are only temporary, k?

and this might freak some people out, but i think there is some truth in that

some of us were talking at work the other day and the converstion was about nice guys and how intimidating they can be....for some reason, at least in my american working class group, women, myself included, are uncomfortable with nice guys

remember i'm just an observer, but that seems to be the consensus

RE: having a romantic or other relationship with somebodyelse stealthly during marriage life can be

but if you have no prolems with your life partner then why are you cheating and keeping such big secrets, hypothetically of course????

RE: this is a happy thread so everyone cheer up and loosen up and have fun

I believe that, you seem it, and it is good cuz then maybe you can make up for those of us who are cynical and bitter and angry and mean

nobody get mad, i'm only talking about myself

RE: Who makes better lovers older women or younger women

definately over 40

RE: Is CS A Good Site For The "Non-Traditional"?

nontraditional meaning childless and alcoholicless?

i have children, but surprisingly they haven't driven me to alcoholism....

i think it's pretty ok here, the forums are good for people who want to talk about whatever

and i've managed to get a few dates

and i think it's fairly open as to what kind of relationships you are looking for.....dating, flirting, chatting, friendships....it seems to be a pretty good place for singles to hang out who have nothing better to do (like me!!)

but after a few months, it loses a little of it's charm

but maybe that's because i'm in a rural area, who knows

anyway, welcome and i think you will have fun

later,
a

RE: when you feel the blues what movie would you watch

you cooked her p's!!
i never actually sit down to watch movies, must be the ADD!! But i do love steve martin