Is CS A Good Site For The "Non-Traditional"? ( Archived) (24)

Jul 20, 2007 10:10 PM CST Is CS A Good Site For The "Non-Traditional"?
LexFonteyne
LexFonteyneLexFonteyneJoliet, Illinois USA2 Threads 41 Posts
Just wondering -- I just spent 7 months on another site, lots of great people over there, but it seemed the site was geared for older people who had kids and grandkids, and had an inordinate number of alcoholics.

A lot of the mainstream mebership seemed appalled by the idea that there could actually be people living in the world today who had no interest whatsoever in kids or drinking....I'm not trying to be judgmental about that, just that I've experienced enough situations to know what works for me and what doesn't.

And it occurred to me that, ultimately, it's the members who define the parameters and the "feel" of any site. Because, when you get right down to it, a site really is nothing more than the people who sign up and participate and write posts and read posts and interact.

So, how is it here? I haven't been here long enough to really get a feel for the place yet. But I heard good things about CS from some people on the other site, and, frankly, I'm hoping to find some place where people are a little more open-minded than they were over there....





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Jul 20, 2007 10:13 PM CST Is CS A Good Site For The "Non-Traditional"?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
Welcome to CS, the other white meat.laugh


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Jul 20, 2007 10:15 PM CST Is CS A Good Site For The "Non-Traditional"?
classicrockgirl
classicrockgirlclassicrockgirlInverness, Florida USA12 Threads 2,414 Posts
Hi and welcome, a lot of good people here.

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Jul 20, 2007 10:17 PM CST Is CS A Good Site For The "Non-Traditional"?
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
Welcome, and certainly hang out in the forums a bit to get a feel for it.

At least to these eyes, there's a pretty broad cross-section of people, views, beliefs, and lifestages. I also like the international aspect of it.

I've been kickin' around here a while, and to me, this is a great bunch of folks.

smokingRobert
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Jul 20, 2007 10:19 PM CST Is CS A Good Site For The "Non-Traditional"?
lookin4ashoulder
lookin4ashoulderlookin4ashouldermanhattan, Kansas USA11 Posts
nontraditional meaning childless and alcoholicless?

i have children, but surprisingly they haven't driven me to alcoholism....

i think it's pretty ok here, the forums are good for people who want to talk about whatever

and i've managed to get a few dates

and i think it's fairly open as to what kind of relationships you are looking for.....dating, flirting, chatting, friendships....it seems to be a pretty good place for singles to hang out who have nothing better to do (like me!!)

but after a few months, it loses a little of it's charm

but maybe that's because i'm in a rural area, who knows

anyway, welcome and i think you will have fun

later,
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Jul 20, 2007 10:20 PM CST Is CS A Good Site For The "Non-Traditional"?
quiescent
quiescentquiescentsomewhere, USA19 Threads 1,199 Posts
Should be interesting...laugh

Welcome
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Jul 20, 2007 10:50 PM CST Is CS A Good Site For The "Non-Traditional"?
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
Let's see, I'm 61. I have a grandson. I'm in love with my neighbour's hamster. I fry spinach. I throw small stones at airplanes. Been married a couple of times. Slim Shady is OK with me. I believe that guns should be available to everyone, but bullets should cost $4000.00 each. I get lonely at times. The scent of a woman, you know that feeling. Yes there are older peeps on here, but the brain doesn't age. Welcome, but remember that Mary Poppins was a junkie. Paws
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Jul 20, 2007 10:53 PM CST Is CS A Good Site For The "Non-Traditional"?
ramone
ramoneramoneEDINBURGH, UK38 Threads 3,826 Posts
WELCOME TO THE NUT HOUSE grin


cheers
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Jul 20, 2007 10:56 PM CST Is CS A Good Site For The "Non-Traditional"?
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
And there's pole dancing around the corner. This place has everything...
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Jul 20, 2007 10:58 PM CST Is CS A Good Site For The "Non-Traditional"?
joy555
joy555joy555Akron, USA26 Threads 5,464 Posts
i know, i just saw it, should we go to the bomb shelterlaugh earlier i was asked to get out my pasties and thong
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Jul 20, 2007 11:00 PM CST Is CS A Good Site For The "Non-Traditional"?
mm I love the strong silent type alcohol or not,muahkiss kiss kiss
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Jul 20, 2007 11:03 PM CST Is CS A Good Site For The "Non-Traditional"?
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
what is this site with all these older people...I think I need to be there
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Jul 20, 2007 11:08 PM CST Is CS A Good Site For The "Non-Traditional"?
LexFonteyne
LexFonteyneLexFonteyneJoliet, Illinois USA2 Threads 41 Posts
Thank you, everyone, for the feedback. (And Kid, you look vaguely familiar....!!)

As a writer, I tend to seek a venue where I can feel comfortable with writing about whatever is on my mind at the moment....I hope this is such a place....

Just to clarify a couple of points -- when I was much younger and dumber and naiver (yes I know that's not a word, but it's consistent with the other comparative words, so I will pretend it's legitimate), I was involved with several older, divorced women who had kids. I quickly learned that they weren't looking for a relationship at all; they were simply looking for someone to come in and play daddy. I almost as quickly learned that I had absolutely no interest in, nor aptitude for, parenting. Simply put, I took to parenting like a moose takes to a flight simulator.

The non-alcohol thing stems from experiences with several people I truly loved who destroyed themselves (in a couple of cases, literally) by drinking. I just don't want to be around it. Some people think that's weird, but I've always been a firm believer in "preventative medicine." I quit using all drugs and alcohol about a month after my 22nd birthday, and will never touch any of that stuff again. I'm not saying it's right or wrong, I'm just saying it's wrong for me....

All I'm saying is everybody has their own individual set of preferences and needs. And I think it's important to respect that, even if we don't necessarily always understand it....
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Jul 20, 2007 11:41 PM CST Is CS A Good Site For The "Non-Traditional"?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
roll eyes
It could be me....*pinch*"OUCH!!!"...Yeah, it's me.



wave

It's a bit different here, give it a try. You might like it.handshake
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Jul 21, 2007 1:27 AM CST Is CS A Good Site For The "Non-Traditional"?
Hennery
HenneryHenneryVentura, California USA31 Threads 855 Posts
elephant No ConnectingSingles Thread is compleat devoid of an Entry from Hennery The Thread Killer...frustrated dancing
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Jul 21, 2007 1:49 AM CST Is CS A Good Site For The "Non-Traditional"?
lovaboy
lovaboylovaboyBig Bad Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK47 Threads 6,806 Posts
Welcome buddy....cheers Its a very good site indeed....have fun, and join the squirrels....laugh
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Jul 21, 2007 5:10 AM CST Is CS A Good Site For The "Non-Traditional"?
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
This site is the same as the other site that you mentioned. grin
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Jul 21, 2007 5:28 AM CST Is CS A Good Site For The "Non-Traditional"?
paddy123
paddy123paddy123Wales, UK76 Threads 1,551 Posts
and had an inordinate number of alcoholics.

Hic!....wassamatter whiff you? Less go fer a beer... rolling on the floor laughing wink

Wecome to CS.............handshake cheers
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Jul 21, 2007 7:03 AM CST Is CS A Good Site For The "Non-Traditional"?
carebear01
carebear01carebear01Mt. Dora, Florida USA48 Threads 3,918 Posts
Very funny Paws
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 21, 2007 7:05 AM CST Is CS A Good Site For The "Non-Traditional"?
carebear01
carebear01carebear01Mt. Dora, Florida USA48 Threads 3,918 Posts
Oh! Hello...
Nice to meet you
wink
Enjoy and by all means laugh often
laugh grin
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