Hello Kevin, I too am looking for a special person in my life and havent found him yet. I am simply exploring my options here. Currently divorced and am lonely, want to make a connection with someone. Meesha
Pity party, no way. Just self improvement. I don't think this is the way I should look anymore. I simply want my outward appearance to reflect how I feel about myself.
Sorry I don't have any of my own, I'm not a poet, but I love poetry.
Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. ~Dr. Seuss
To love is to place our happiness in the happiness of another. G.W. Von Leibnitz
It is not how much you do, but how much Love you put into the doing that matters. Mother Teresa
Life is just a chance to grow a soul. Powell Davies
In the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasures. For in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed. Kahlil Gibran
A friend is one who knows us, but loves us anyway. Fr. Jerome Cummings
Friendships are fragile things, and require as much handling as any other fragile and precious thing. Randolph S. Bourne
Many people have a wrong idea of what constitutes true happiness. It is not attained through self-gratification, but through fidelity to a worthy purpose. Helen Keller
No way really, I feel bad. What do you like to do? Any hobbies besides smoken dubbies? That whole drug scene happened when I was a kid but I guess I grew out of it. I like the feeling of being in control of my faculties I guess. Can't hold down much of a job without them. A suggestion I suppose would be to find a hobby and hopefully this hobby will allow you to meet other people who enjoy the same things. Stay cool Blue1.
Well even being overweight my doctor says I am fit as a fiddle. I have always been very physically strong, trying to keep up with my two older brother growing up I had to be. Always fighting off their friends for one. Yikes they made my life hell sometimes. And I walked everywhere when I needed to go somewhere. I do want to loose this weight.
The main reason for the weight is the last 5 years of a very unloving/onesided marriage. We should have called it off about 5 years ago but I stuck it out hoping things would improve. There is no worse feeling than knowing the one you fell in love with no longer feels for you the same way. I suppose it's for the best, at least we can both move on with our lives and were young enough to still enjoy life and love with another person. Ok enough of the pitty party for me.
More Jokes on the differences between men and woman...
NICKNAMES
If Laura, Suzanne, Debra and Rose go out for lunch, they will call each other Laura, Suzanne, Debra and Rose.
If Mike, Charlie, Bob and John go out, they will affectionately refer to each other as Fat Boy, Godzilla, Peanut-Head and Scrappy
EATING OUT
When the bill arrives, Mike, Charlie, Bob and John will each throw in $20, even though it's only for $32.50. None of them will have anything smaller, and none will actually admit they want change back.
When the girls get their bill, out come the pocket calculators.
MONEY A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he wants.
A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn't want.
BATHROOMS
A man has six items in his bathroom: a toothbrush, shaving cream, razor, a bar of soap, and a towel from the Holiday Inn.
The average number of items in the typical woman's bathroom is 337. A man would not be able to identify most of these items.
ARGUMENTS
A woman has the last word in any argument.
Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.
CATS
Women love cats.
Men say they love cats, but when women aren't looking, men kick cats.
FUTURE
A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.
A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.
SUCCESS
A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.
A successful woman is one who can find such a man.
MARRIAGE
A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.
A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change and she does.
DRESSING UP
A woman will dress up to go shopping, water the plants, empty the garbage, answer the phone, read a book, and get the mail.
A man will dress up for weddings and funerals (And hopefully a job interview)
NATURAL
Men wake up as good-looking as they went to bed.
Women somehow deteriorate during the night.
OFFSPRING
Ah, children. A woman knows all about her children. She knows about dentist appointments and romances, best friends, favorite foods, secret fears and hopes and dreams.
A man is vaguely aware of some short people living in the house.
Wow that really sounds bad, no wonder your having nightmares. Do you have anyone, friends to talk to about this? If not I would be happy to talk to you over the phone. Call me if you need or want to 602-667-5678. As far as advice I think this is somthing you will be living with for the rest of your life unless you seek professional help. Trauma like that does not just go away. It lingers. I think the best thing you can do is inform the guys in your life ahead of time that if I seem distant from you that it's not them it you, maybe that will keep them around even though you try to push them away. Guys are very good about things like that if they know what is going on. Most of them enjoy the damsel in destress stuff, makes them feel needed and important. Anyway, I feel for you and if there is anything I can do to help you through it please let me know ok.
Come on now, it's not that bad. I've gone on a few dates, and most of the guys are really nice just not interested in being with one woman and that's fine with me I would just prefer not to be the other woman in any relationship. At least there being honest about it though.
Well thanks for all your input guys and girls, hope you had as much fun with this as I did. Let me know if you'de like to chat some more on the subject.
Why are there so many lonely people in the world when there are so many of us. I believe that lonelyness is a state of mind. I think that people just go a little stir crazy with the only thing being heard is the sound of there own thoughts and no one elses to break up the munotany on occasion.
I think people are just scared to interact with one another because of seft doubt and lack of self confidence. Please don't take that as a put down, but that is what is lacking our our country today is confidence in our selves. We don't seem to have much pride in anything anymore. That in my opinion is very sad. I would like to speak with some of you about the subjuct and hear your thoughts on the subject.
Hey there Lucinda, I live in East Phoenix. How far North in Scottsdale do you live? If your close and you havent found a workout buddy yet, I'm up for it. I need to strengthen myself up.
I am a large gal and would like to know if this site has any BBW lovers that I can speak with and not have to do the run around for a year to get a date on this site. let me know if your out there.
I don't think there should be a time line but maybe after about 6 months you might want to through out an altamatum for him if he does not want to just be with you. That's just what I would do. Meesha
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Hello Kevin, I too am looking for a special person in my life and havent found him yet. I am simply exploring my options here. Currently divorced and am lonely, want to make a connection with someone.Meesha