Why are there so many lonely people in the world when there are so many of us. I believe that lonelyness is a state of mind. I think that people just go a little stir crazy with the only thing being heard is the sound of there own thoughts and no one elses to break up the munotany on occasion.
I think people are just scared to interact with one another because of seft doubt and lack of self confidence. Please don't take that as a put down, but that is what is lacking our our country today is confidence in our selves. We don't seem to have much pride in anything anymore. That in my opinion is very sad. I would like to speak with some of you about the subjuct and hear your thoughts on the subject.
general assumptions such as your post is a big reason women look into more then just LOOKS so if you really want to understand a woman or at least what attracts her ........
the answer is......
talk to her mind and listen that she has a brain and uses it.
Head Games are not even in the picture of a person male or female that is real and true to them selves ..... as for the i want a big **** well if a guy wants to go for a woman or girl shall i say that is so shallow then you get what you get. Now if on the other hand your looking for a date or even a relationship out side of marriage then look for that instead of with you other head!!
the question i ask my self about your posts is this ...... what are you really loking for? a good time or a friend or something meaningful?? its all in the first attraction really and you are correct that men are visual but as well so remember that most women are as well.
its never an easy task to find the "ONE" so to speak and in saying that please also keep in mind that what you give is what you get.
I myself am kinda picky. Not in terms of looks but in terms of mind. I'm still very young and I just want to find a real chick that I can chill with and be myself around.
i like how you just focused on the mind game part. and still did not get what i am saying every girl that includes you test, you have to. just like when you sed "what are you really looking for? a good time or a friend or something meaningful??" this is a great example. and the answer is all 3 i want a good time a friend and something meaningful. that big**** is a test to see if the guy is a wuss bag. a guy approaches you starts talking to you hes confident then you ask him this question and he starts getting nervous are you going to go home with him just cause he looks good.
Well thanks for all your input guys and girls, hope you had as much fun with this as I did. Let me know if you'de like to chat some more on the subject.
Maybe people are lonely because the "choose" to be lonely. Maybe people are unhappy because they do not want to be happy. Abe Lincoln once said, "we all have the right to be as happy as we make up our minds to be"..
Maybe it is the internet!! Maybe this is easier than actually going out and meeting people. On here, people cannot see who others really are..
So much for that, I am off to PIR, have a NASCAR race to work a few days this week..
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I think people are just scared to interact with one another because of seft doubt and lack of self confidence. Please don't take that as a put down, but that is what is lacking our our country today is confidence in our selves. We don't seem to have much pride in anything anymore. That in my opinion is very sad. I would like to speak with some of you about the subjuct and hear your thoughts on the subject.
Michele - Out