cowansvillecin Forum Posts (31)

RE: If you found the one that agrees with you would you say bye here?

and btw, you dont need to reply... once I am gone.....just something to think about....

RE: If you found the one that agrees with you would you say bye here?

Although I have tried to post my opinion several times, I have been for the most part ignored from the women on these forums....I posted a thread to say I was new and I was ignored....I have had several men on the threads write to me or reply to my threads..so yes I would leave and I am leaving....mabey you should try to be a bit more careful to include newbies in your clicks.....very disappointed ....

RE: How much younger or older would you date

I have made a very srtong connection with someone here who is 12 years younger than I, we tossed around the age thing for awhile, then we just decided it wasnt important to either of us...we joke about it, but I dont think it will ever be a real issue between us.

RE: The "Gentlemanly Thing To Do"

why should the man have to pay for all the travelling costs? I think that both should pay for the cost of the first meeting...50-50.

RE: I love it when you.......

...say that, and I know your thinking of me....xo

RE: THANK YOU CONNECTING SINGLES!

upon us both...xo

RE: The "Pay It Forward" Movement

free for you....always.

RE: I love it when you.......

trust me enough to tell me whats on your mind....

RE: THANK YOU CONNECTING SINGLES!

Good luck to you both! wont you rub some of that luck on the rest of us?

RE: what do ya miss from your childhood?

I miss my family. My mom and my dad and my sister.its been hard growing up without them.

RE: if at first u dont suceed get a bigger hammer

Thanks skin..nice compliment..I think? :)

RE: The "Pay It Forward" Movement

thanks for that sparky...nice to know someones paying attention.

RE: The "Pay It Forward" Movement

I once gave away one of my dogs to an old family friend. It killed me, I was in a depression for a long time over that, but to date I think it was the most self-less acts I have done. The lady was 80 and her dog was 18, every morning she would get up and take a walk with her little dog, then she would make breakfast, and they would eat together, then she would read the paper every morning to her little dog who would sit happily and listen quietly.( which was great for her , helps keep her witts about her) when her dog dies suddenly, the lady stopped eating, stopped getting dressed and finally stopped reading the paper. She had come for a visit and the only thing she talked about was how my little dog was so much like hers. I helped two lives that day....I didnt know it but my little dog was about to need a very big operation that I wouldnt have been able to afford....I asked the lady if she would like to take care of my little dog for me, for the first time in months, the lady had a gleam in her eye and a hop in her step, she came back to life...a week later we discovered the dog was sick, the lady gratefully paid for the operation that saved the dogs life, and they are both alive and happy today. that is how pay it forward works....

RE: if at first u dont suceed get a bigger hammer

I have had the week from hell..so many stupid things happened to me this week, little annoying things, but they add up...gggggrrrrr...but, the week is over, and the new one is going to be much better. Hope the same for yours.

RE: Does anyone get scared they may have found the "right" one on here

I met someone on here that I really like and really connected with...scared, no. distance is a hard thing to deal with,,,but if the connection is strong ,and you can stay in touch long enough to actually meet in person, thats half the battle won right there....

there is always a risk in love.

RE: in the category for body type????/

average...means not over- weight. Thats the way I read it. I think that people put way too much emphesis on the weight issue, but everyone is entitled to their likes and dislikes. I would like it if someone would just like me, for ...well, me. He's out there and I am going to find him.

I also put a few extra pounds, why? because I am not my idea weight, not far from it, but if I didnt put that, then It would be considered that I lied.

people are too picky.

RE: Romance... what is it good for?

I always like to say...I am not looking for someone to complete me, just someone to compliment me.....and vise-versa....I am complete.

Real Romance is good for keeping the spark in the relationship, romance is the *play* in the relationship, romance is a way of telling your partner you took the time to think of him or her....I am a very romantic soul, and its a tool that I use alot in my relationships.

RE: Advice Please, Met someone who DEVASTATED me and I still care, read my story.

I have read the Four Agreements and your right, it did change my life. I highly recommend it.

RE: Open dating or exclusive dating?

actually, if I meet him on a site, before dating him, I write exclusively to one man if there is a connection made. I feel its wrong for me to write to several men at the same time, makes me feel like I might be leading them on....if it doesnt work out, them I move on. It is nice to make someone feel secure as possible, and that your really into them.

RE: To be faithful to one person is to be unfaithful to the rest of humanity

yes, please do elaborate....

RE: If the only way you had to win your mate was through a game of truth or dare, would you choose the t

I would choose the dare....Have nothing to hide

RE: Does anyone know what true love is?

True love does begin with loving yourself. another important element in true love is learning to forgive. We all make mistakes, and more than not, we throw love away because we cant find it in our ego filled hearts to forgive someone for hurting us. if you cant love and forgive yourself how will you be able to share those great qualities with anyone else???

RE: IF YOU FOUND A SUIT CASE WITH A MILLION DOLLARS IN IT WHAT WOULD YOU DO???

you silly nut, your bum is just fine..:) I like the ones with the cracks in them.

RE: personal

Great question TabooN ! I am honestly looking to make a real deep connection, and find someone I normally couldnt find walking down the street. if they want to bs I can see through that really quick.

RE: Do these sites really work?

the connection is so strong that it has already worked for me....I will always be honest with you Goody.

RE: Out of Emails!!

couldnt imagine loosing contact with you....

RE: SO WHO'S STILL AWAKE

thank you, I am still here until 7 am ...last night was great...I talked all night with matt, what a hunk of a man....love this place, unfortunately he had to get some sleep tonight.....hope you all have a good day though!

RE: SO WHO'S STILL AWAKE

I am glad to see that I am not the onlyone still awake at this hour...I work nights and sometimes it can get very long, thanks to you guys, the nights pass alot better, I love coming on here and reading the forums....you are all too funny!

RE: Out of Emails!!

and to those of us new here, I thought he had fallen alseep! I didnt even know that there was a limit....instant connection, I like that, Goody. thx.

RE: Do these sites really work?

thank- you matt...so you see....these sites really do work. I really love your beautiful heart matt....look forward to talking to you soon.