Does anyone get scared they may have found the "right" one on here (44)
babycountry28saint joseph, Missouri USA15 Threads 351 PostsDo any of you think you may have found that "right one" On here and it scares you to death?
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If I found that right one, I couldn't imagine being scared at all. I'd be one happy camper!
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I may have found the right one and it's kind of cool. However, I get the impression that you are looking for answers to your own predicament. Am I correct? If so, why are you scared?
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I am with EX on this one, I think I would be really happy to have found them. The only thing I may have an issue about if I met them here is that they very well may live far away from where I am. If he and I lived far apart then it would be like , now what? Does someone move, stay like this? what next? And as a mom eveything is riskier, scarier to do cuz I am not alone EVERYTHING involves and effects my baby! :)
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No I just got to thinking last night what happens if I find someone........"The right one" and as cricket said what if they live far away. What if all the things you thought they were they are not.
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I can only say is follow your heart: If it sounds too good to be true, it might be. But on the other hand I would hope it wasn't and maybe test the person just to try and make sure they truely were the right person. I have to add as long as you feel they are being fully honest with you and you are doing the same persue it and only god knows what will come.
Whiteknight out!!!!!!!!!
Whiteknight out!!!!!!!!!
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Scary isn't it! Step 1 you can't avoid; someone is going to have to visit the other; no way around it, and yes, it can get expensive even going "half and half" on travel costs then "if it still feels right for BOTH, get to know them first, very well before any really serious planning any moving; and ALL posible options write them all out, make lists;don't rush, plan very methodically one day at a time;love rushed is love regreted.On some visits, you may have more "work" than fun, don't become impatient! but still make time to have fun!!
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If i did/have,yeah i would be a bit scared...but i sure wouldn't let that stop me.I would pack up and move in a heartbeat.
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i think they would be scared of me for what i have planned for them. muhahahaha
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Baby C,
Love knows no boundries and if it was honestly supposed to happen then it will happen no matter what the circumstances are. The way I know is because I watched my mom go through hell and high water to get the person she is with now. So hang in there and just keep praying for the best.
Love knows no boundries and if it was honestly supposed to happen then it will happen no matter what the circumstances are. The way I know is because I watched my mom go through hell and high water to get the person she is with now. So hang in there and just keep praying for the best.
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To be honest, yes, it would scare the hell out of me for several reasons. First and mostly would be committing to someone over long distances and turning out to be an idol commitment. And secondly, not sure if I ever want to set myself up for hurt again. I know that life is full of chances and as I preach to my son about, nothing ventured nothing gained. I guess that’s why I hang out here because I’m looking to hopefully gain here.
Bill
Bill
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you can scare me anyday vanity love the laugh
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I thought I had found the right one, and I was scared
to death. I am not so sure anymore, but still upset.
She does live far away, I will have to go there to
find out. There is still a chance she may be the right
one, and I am still very nervous about that. Yes, it
is a scary thing. If she did turn out to be the right
one, one or both of use would have to move, perhaps a
long ways, maybe even to a different country. Yes,
it is a scary thing. Even just out date, to find out
if she might be right for me, travelling thousands of
miles, that is a lot to do. Yes, scary.
dpw
to death. I am not so sure anymore, but still upset.
She does live far away, I will have to go there to
find out. There is still a chance she may be the right
one, and I am still very nervous about that. Yes, it
is a scary thing. If she did turn out to be the right
one, one or both of use would have to move, perhaps a
long ways, maybe even to a different country. Yes,
it is a scary thing. Even just out date, to find out
if she might be right for me, travelling thousands of
miles, that is a lot to do. Yes, scary.
dpw
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it would be a predicament to find someone on here and they lived faraway...I'd definatly be scared...but don't you think if they were THE one you wouldn't hesitate to try and make it work? Life is work marriage is definatly work....doesn't it make sense that love should also require some work and tenderloving care
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Oh, yes, it makes sense. It makes sense that if you
want to swim in the water you have to dive in, but
you might hesitate a bit first, knowing you will,
but being a bit chicken. I wanted to meet someone
on here, but didn't expect to, and was kinds shocked
when I did. I haven't gotten over the shock yet,
and maybe I won't till I meet her in person and know
for sure if she is right for me or not.
dpw
want to swim in the water you have to dive in, but
you might hesitate a bit first, knowing you will,
but being a bit chicken. I wanted to meet someone
on here, but didn't expect to, and was kinds shocked
when I did. I haven't gotten over the shock yet,
and maybe I won't till I meet her in person and know
for sure if she is right for me or not.
dpw
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I am scared to meet them,but if I thought or think he is the one,I get a plain ticket right away and go no matter where he is...I dont like the feeling of thinking what could be or might have been.....And i figure if I get there and it is not how I expected then at least I gave it a try...For me and my ex in frankfurt I talked to him everyday for at least 4 hours on line then we saw each other on cam as well..Hell by the time we saw each other in real ,we felt like we have been in love for years and I think barely made it to the car in airport parking lot before we were ingulfed in each other...Was not a bit scared when i first saw him as I was on the plain...;-)We went on like that for almost two years,it was worth it....
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doesn't sound reckless jake just like you are a hopeless romantic. I've never been one to really shy away but the way everything happened with my last one hurt so deep inside I thought I would never have feelings for anyone again and now well I want to feel that way about someone again and have someone feel the same way about me.
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I have made several friends on here. People I talk to regularly or play online games with. People I share things with or talk about a bad day. As for as the RIGHT person. Many either live too far away. OR After talking to for a while, I know there can't be more than a friendship. Its harder when there is a distance that you can't go to dinner or something.
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I was scared I found the right one on here but took a step back and I found more right ones which was less scary. Keep stepping back. :)
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Hey , marcy-cool...LLgo for it...Jake right on....Rainbow that's right.....Solitare sometimes you talk to deep for me, I understand you this time.lol.... Love out weight's the hurt.......my motto is .....keep clicking away lol....and today might be the day .......
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