I think that all these feelings are coming back up because I got to spend some time with Guy this past weekend. He is now home from the hospital (I took him home). His family had a HUGE fit about it when they found out who brought him home.
THEY are the ones that caused the majority of the problem to begin with...why can't they leave well enough alone???
I know deep in my heart that I could never be with Guy again because of the lack of faith and trust he has in me, I just don't understand his family. The man is 35 years old and he can make his own decisions (as long as his family approves I guess)
I know you are right....I even tried recently....just got hurt all over again...I think I am going to stay a hermit where dating is concerned....for a bit longer anyway. As much as I want to find someone, I am more afraid of being hurt yet again...feels like I am going to shatter.
nope...I was at work...I couldn't really get into it too much...I was a little shell shocked too...so I didn't really think about asking at the moment....
I know Ship...I am just so tired of all the crap....I think that I will just go back to being a hermit when it comes to dating....I am just not ready to deal with the emotional games after all that has happened in the last 4 months.
I guess I am just gonna have to hunt him down and drag him out on the town again... ...
Love ya Stew...give me a call when you are going to be in the area and we can have lunch or dinner...you just might even catch me on a day that I feel like cooking.....LOL...
That was the first time that he ever stood me up....like I said, last weekend was the first time I went out with him after HE hounded me for months to go out.....I just don't understand why he felt things were moving too fast....I guess I am just dense or something.....
And there won't be any other dates of any kind with him....I don't take kindly to being put off like that...
if you are looking for someone to maybe spend the rest of your life with (or just spend time with) then why play games with them that will hurt them???
OMG!!!! I have been dealing with something so like this but from someone who has been hounding me to go out with them for several months now....I get a phone call from him tonight telling me that he feels things are moving too fast....WTF???? We spent time together last weekend, I worked all week (both day and night) we chatted on the phone a little bit during the week....he was supposed to come over for dinner on Friday and I never heard from him....until tonight....what is so damned fast about that????
I didn't have to wait in line. As soon as I checked in, I went right into the voting booth I didn't even get to the poling place until 5:30pm....I was lucky...there were folks in the area that had to wait hours to vote.
I don't know about self-respect but, I think that it make you a better person when you can admit to yourself and to others that you were wrong and try to make it right for all involved....JMO
RE: Say Something...Please?
I think that all these feelings are coming back up because I got to spend some time with Guy this past weekend. He is now home from the hospital (I took him home). His family had a HUGE fit about it when they found out who brought him home.THEY are the ones that caused the majority of the problem to begin with...why can't they leave well enough alone???
I know deep in my heart that I could never be with Guy again because of the lack of faith and trust he has in me, I just don't understand his family. The man is 35 years old and he can make his own decisions (as long as his family approves I guess)