I already found it...No what I am saying is that I did not come here looking for love...BUT it ended up finding me anyway...My intention was always to start off any relationship I may choose to have as a friendship on or off-line because jumping into anything too quick doesn't work....I never messaged or contacted anyone...I was just here...being me and never thought anymore about it than that!!!!!!! I always figured that if I was to share my life with someone that we would find each other regardless of where it was or what the circumstances were!!!!!!!!!!
Well sometimes the best way to start off love is with friendship...That's the way I look at it...The man I just met in person and I started off that way BUT we were both in the same place and it grew from there!!!!!!!
So while I don't feel I closed myself off...I feel you may be...By closing off any possibility regardless!!!!!!!!!!
Sometimes what we may think we want and what takes up by surprise are 2 different things!!!!!!!!!
Well my boredom is after I have been out in RL doing the things I want to do...I work and do other things...BUT I just liked to come here to to mingle and take part in the forums...I never had a precept to being here and didn't intend to meet anyone...BUT my main point was I didn't close the door to meeting someone either...This is not my life but merely a place I like to come and laugh, play and see good friends and yes some of them I have met off-line!!!!!!!
There are a number of reasons people are here...They may have met their match on CS and they both still enjoy posting and have mutual friends here....They may be bored...Not have a chance to get out much and just looking for people to talk to....They may actually like you be looking for love because they can't find it where they are from...They may have been jilted so many times that they need a break from any sort of relationship with the exception of friendship!!!!!!!!
So there are many reasons...Not just one!!!!!!!!
Myself..I came here out of boredom not wanting a relationship cause I was sick of them and ended up meeting a man whom I just spent 9 lovely days with...So you see...Sometimes it doesn't matter why you are here...BUT what you are willing to open yourself up to!!!!!!
Exactly...I haven't put any poetry on here of mine...BUT it's the rudeness that I can't tolerate from others...There is no need for it...other than to make them feel better about what they are lacking!!!!!!!!
Hugz_n_Kissez Forum Posts (25,438)
Oh yeah the cute scouser!!!!!!!!
RE: KIds are...
And so you should be!!!!!!!!