Well, I had about 3 or four very close girlfriends, we were like sisters. A bunch of us got married. Then MY husband left me and at the time they were sympathetic. I am over him, but because of all that the chain of events led to me being in a crappy situation and they havent been there for me at all. One hasnt even so much as emailed in a year. Another will go out of her way to make plans with others, but im not important enough. Not one ever asks me how I am or whats going on with me. I feel invisible where they are concerned.
I feel like doing that. There is nothing I would not have done for them. Even knowing Im in a tough place they are so self absorbed they cant even send a freaking email to check on me. We expect this crap from guys, but your girls are supposed to be there for you.
Im just tired of people dissapointing me and making empty promises. Everyone leaves eventually. Im tired of hardening my heart against people. I just want one person to stick by me.
If nearly everyone you know abandons you, should you take it as a personal hint, or are they all just jerks? And who in the world do you talk to about having no one to talk to?
Of course I do not want to offend anyone. The message is the same, whether or not you are a christian. He still believes in you. I would never judge someone for their beliefs, and i hope that can expect the same
I have been on this site for a few months and read lots of profiles and forum posts. It breaks my heart sometimes that there are so many who have been hurt, who are broken hearted, who are lonely. I really feel for you all. I truely wish everyone love and happiness. I just want to tell each and every one of you that you are special, no matter what you have been told or led to believe in the past. There is a God who loves you and wants the best for you. He understands your feelings and your hurts, Remember you are a treasure and to love yourself for who you are. I hope you all find what you are looking for. God bless
red roses are so cliche..someone labeled them "romantic" so now every woman has to love them? Its more romantic to find out her favorite flower, or one that reminds you of her BTW You can never go wrong with a hug. :)
Better to be vocal than to stare out the window the whole time..or to only have a look of intense concentration... not that I know anyone like that ....
You sound like my ex. You sound like you are trying to justify what you did. It is a copout. To say that you cant help it just because you are male is ridiculous. Take ownership for your actions. I hope your fiancee thinks long and hard about going through with a wedding. BTW, if you would study the Bible, you would see that Adam was not "unsuspecting". He knew exactly what he was getting into. As I am sure, did you.
In solidtartans defense, I can understand that you cant help what you are or arent attracted to. Personally, I could never be attracted to someone with a mullet or whose facial hair gave an impression of someone who sold drugs in south america. :) Im just saying that he should be a bit more openminded. Accepting his kids is key, and so is maturity, but what if she did have a child of her own? That child might add even more joy to his life. What if she wasnt super young, but his own age? That doesnt mean that her spirit isnt youthful. Good luck solidtartan, I hope that you will be a bit more openminded, for your sake. Otherwise, you have a long search ahead of you.
I dont think that it is necessarily the kid thing. A lot of women love kids and would accept them into her life readily. I think the problem here is you are looking for a very specific woman. You have so many conditions that a woman reading them will usually find herself ruled out and not even try. Maybe if you opened your mind and got to know some women that dont necessarily fit your criteria, you would find that those things dont matter so much to you. Sometimes you miss out on some really great people when you have your mind set on one kind of person.
The bride doesnt need any additional stress if you can help it. Try and reason with mom, ask her to consider her daughters feelings, and if she is still being unreasonable, then I would talk to the daughter and let her know that whatever she chooses is ok with you and you love her and are proud of her no matter what, and you will support her decision.
I disagree. God can bless you with falling in love as many times as he sees fit. And when I was married I fell in love with him all over again almost on a daily basis. I lost him through circumstances beyond my control. I think falling in love with your mate should happen almost daily. Its something that gets lost if you only do it once.
Besides, lets say youre married, and your spouse dies. Years later you remarry. What? You never really loved the first one? Or you dont love the new one? Also, you can fall in love with the same person more than once.
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We should all take the time to be thankful! What a great song. Gotta love Veggie Tales..
Wondering..
i am a good person dammit. I am ridiculously loyal and generous to my friends, and i deserve to have someone to count on