Why Men Hurt Women ( Archived) (33)

Nov 19, 2007 11:05 AM CST Why Men Hurt Women
freakme81
freakme81freakme81Austin, Indiana USA1 Threads 1 Posts
I don't know if there's any truth to this, but it's an absolute possibility. Woman is the one who took the fruit from Satan in the garden of Eden, then gave it to her unsuspecting husband who had entrusted his life to her. Therefore, I believe that all women will probably be cursed to be hurt by men for the rest of their lives. It's not because we don't love you, it's not because we don't want to be with you. It's because we are directed by our emotions and our feelings to do what we feel is right, or what we feel that we need at that time, regardless of your feelings. This by no means makes cheating on your girlfriend, fiance, or wife right in any case men, but it does explain why we do whatever we want to do. See, I cheated on my fiance a little over a month ago, and I know it hurt her. I've been dealing with the pain of it myself every since, not because she keeps beating me over the head with it, which is really starting to get on my nerves, but because I love her with all my heart and am truly sincerly sorry for the pain that I've caused her. Ladies, men are stupid. That's the only logical explanation that I can give you for why we do what we do. But always remember, women can be very stupid too.
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Nov 19, 2007 11:09 AM CST Why Men Hurt Women
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
"It's because we are directed by our emotions and our feelings to do what we feel is right.."

Hi wave

I tend to disagree with the above statement.
I think men are in fact directed by their loins and women their emotions.



wine
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Nov 19, 2007 11:09 AM CST Why Men Hurt Women
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
haha ..

Are you trying to EXCUSE you being unfaithful.. by saying your fiancée had it coming, because (the apparent) Eve gave (the apparent) Adam.. a poisoned apple?


hahaha I thought I heard every excuse.. but that one wins hands down! rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 19, 2007 11:12 AM CST Why Men Hurt Women
solidtartan
solidtartansolidtartanSavannah, USA3 Threads 50 Posts
Man....I appreciate your point of view, but could not disagree more. There are men out there with integrity and smarts. I don't not hurt people and was taught that this rule applies even more to women. At the end of the day, my life is easier, more comfortable and much more enjoyable because I am never looking over my shoulder or having to remember what I said, etc.

My wife cheated on me then left me and our three children. The pain was more unbearable than I ever could have imagined. I have difficulty believing you can really get in touch with that. Sorry your fiance is starting to "get on your nerves".
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Nov 19, 2007 11:14 AM CST Why Men Hurt Women
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Yeah I'm sorry she's 'getting on your nerves' too...


Hopefully things wont follow your way of thinking..

you might find yourself with a freshly baked apple pie. rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 19, 2007 11:15 AM CST Why Men Hurt Women
"men are stupid. That's the only logical explanation that I can give you for why we do what we do."

Put that in the Singular ,Please.
Then sit down and think things through rationally,draw thr right conclusions and Act on them,instead of dreaming up some Esoteric Excuses.
confused conversing wave
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Nov 19, 2007 11:18 AM CST Why Men Hurt Women
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Yeah... something like that.. devil


laugh
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Nov 19, 2007 11:18 AM CST Why Men Hurt Women
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
men hurt women because they have low self esteem. They feel bad about themselves so they, in turn, make others feel bad. Women pose easier targets than men. We can forget all the Bible-babble! A MAN doesn't hurt a woman!! I BELIEVE a real man would rather hurt himself than to cause pain (emotional or otherwise) to a woman he loves.




..............................JMHFO!!!
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Nov 19, 2007 11:19 AM CST Why Men Hurt Women
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
ahahaha! laugh
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Nov 19, 2007 11:20 AM CST Why Men Hurt Women
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Exactly Ship... thumbs up (and the other way around too)
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Nov 19, 2007 11:22 AM CST Why Men Hurt Women
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
****"Love hath no fury like a woman scorned"




I think that's "HELL hath no fury like a woman scourned"
tongue
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Nov 19, 2007 11:22 AM CST Why Men Hurt Women
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Oo I was referring to the 'Hurting someone' bit.
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Nov 19, 2007 11:22 AM CST Why Men Hurt Women
supposed to have been the root of all our Past and Future and Present Problems.
All I see is Trouble ahead.
rolling on the floor laughing grin dancing
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Nov 19, 2007 11:29 AM CST Why Men Hurt Women
bubbles69
bubbles69bubbles69Inverness, Highland, Scotland UK17 Threads 1 Polls 1,984 Posts
I bet your girlfriend is cursing Eve. Of course it couldnt possibly be anything to do with you could it. Im curios though, are you sorry for what you did or sorry you got found out. If you were my bf you'd be in hospital having something surgically removed from your rear end.
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Nov 19, 2007 11:30 AM CST Why Men Hurt Women
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
An apple? laugh
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Nov 19, 2007 11:31 AM CST Why Men Hurt Women
bubbles69
bubbles69bubbles69Inverness, Highland, Scotland UK17 Threads 1 Polls 1,984 Posts
I was thinking more of the tree.
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Nov 19, 2007 11:32 AM CST Why Men Hurt Women
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
hahahahahaha!! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 19, 2007 11:32 AM CST Why Men Hurt Women
bonnieblue
bonniebluebonnieblueKingsport, Tennessee USA2 Threads 40 Posts
You sound like my ex. You sound like you are trying to justify what you did. It is a copout. To say that you cant help it just because you are male is ridiculous. Take ownership for your actions. I hope your fiancee thinks long and hard about going through with a wedding.
BTW, if you would study the Bible, you would see that Adam was not "unsuspecting". He knew exactly what he was getting into. As I am sure, did you.
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Nov 19, 2007 11:37 AM CST Why Men Hurt Women
markmeunier
markmeuniermarkmeunierTimmins, Ontario Canada16 Threads 3 Polls 912 Posts
Responsibility lies in the keeper of the offence. You and you alone did the reprehesible and Eve in no way was responsible. Fisrt you treat your girlfriend like luggage and now you blame the entire gender for your actions. Guilt cannot be cleansed by skucking your responsibiliy onto the shoulders of others. Be accountable for your own actions do not make it worse by compounding the misery.
and BTW "Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee" Genesis 3:16 The men got to labour for their part so we never blameless I am sure you didn't trip and fall into this other woman.

Markangel
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Nov 19, 2007 11:40 AM CST Why Men Hurt Women
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
thumbs up

In reality, and as far as I know, the mans actions were worse than Eves...he KNEW what he was doing was wrong, yet went ahead and did it, while Eve was more naive in her transgression.
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