damosaurusOPwest melton, Victoria Australia1 posts
I have discovered that it is very difficult to meet any older women who are interested in chatting with a slightly younger male. Is it my imagination or do older women believe a younger man has nothing to offer?
"Just Your Imagination,Running Away With You"? as that Popular Song (almost) went. ....and how much IS slightly younger? No one is interested to Rob the Cradle,except mybe some extremely D.O.M.'s
I don't mind chatting with younger men, but I am a realist and I often wonder what is the younger man seeking? If he is searching for a relationship, how likely is it that there is enough common ground between the two to have a real relationship? Yes, I know that some are able to make it work, but I think that the odds are generally against it. If he is simply wanting the "older woman experience" and wants to check off that box on his list (older woman, 2 women--preferably twins, different ethnicity, etc.), then I wish him well and happy hunting, but I seek something more. And, as a woman who has already raised children into adulthood, I would not want to ever stand in the way of a man having the same opportunity. Any young man who wants to eventually marry and have children should have that. My sons are my greatest joy in my life and I wouldn't dream of denying that joy to anyone. Having said that, I do have a number of male friends who are quite a bit younger than me, so chatting and communicating is not a problem for me. Dating, however, is another story.
i truly wouldnt want to resign as your consigliere but this remark is pushing it
personally i think the OP has little experience at all as speaking just for my galpals here at CS over 50% of us enjoy younger men however it wouldnt be right to name names, other than my own-
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