2.There's half as much housework, cooking, and cleaning to do.
3.You can watch whatever TV channel you like, without arguments.
4.You can get home from work at whatever time you like.
5.You get to eat the whole “meal for two” by yourself.
6.There are fewer important birthdays (spouse, kids, spouse’s parents, etc) and no anniversaries to accidentally forget.
7.Without a spouse you have can still have a decent social life in your 30s.
8.You don't keep catching every sniffle, cold and flu bug that your spouse brings home.
9.You don’t have to live halfway between your workplace and your spouse’s workplace.
10.Once you’re married most of your friends will also be married, and coincidentally (like you, if you marry) they will mostly be staying home with their own spouse’s instead of hanging out with you.
11.You can lie in bed in the morning for as long as you like.
12.Nobody sees what you look like first thing in the morning.
13.No soap operas (of sports shows, depending on male vs. female perhaps)
14.You can throw your dirty socks on the floor where they belong.
15.There’s no pressure to make the bed in the morning
16.You don’t have to worry about what the bathroom smells like when you walk out of it.
17.You know where the bar of soap has been
18.You don’t have to put out Christmas lights if you don’t want to
19.When you’re single the lawn looks a lot better when the grass is longer
20.No one snores
21.Folding clothes?….No thank you
22.There’s no fight for remote control ownership.
23.Smelly socks and skiddy underwear are not that big of an issue when you’re only washing your own.
24.On your way out you know that you’re shoes are right where you took them off yesterday.
25.We can stay in the shower as long as we want and don’t have to worry about conserving hot water for a spouse (or kids).
26.You can do laundry – or not.
27.You don't have to shave if you don’t want to.
28.You don’t have to share your razor with anyone
29.You don't have to buy Valentines/birthday/Mother's day cards.
30.You won’t have anyone saying 'you're not going to wear that, are you?'
31.If your married and no fashion sense your spouse thinks you’re a moron. If you’re single and have no fashion sense people think you are eccentric.
32.Burning the food is not a big deal.
33.You’re not as accountable to anyone - if I want to do something, I just do it!
34.If you mess up your finances you have no one to blame but yourself.
35.You ALWAYS know EXACTLY how much is in your checking account.
36.You get the whole bed to yourself.
37.You can watch a late show on the bedroom TV and no one complains.
38.There are no unexplainable moods to contend with.
39.You have much more freedom to choose.
40.If there’s dribble on your pillow you know where it came from.
41.You never have to say where you've been or what you've been doing.
42.There’s no curfew.
43.You never have to hide anything in your shopping cart under other stuff.
44.You can spend all you want or all you have – it doesn’t matter.
45.You never have to worry about saying what you think, or having to pretend you’re thinking something that you’re not.
46.You can be rude if that’s in you’re nature.
47.You can eat what YOU want.
48.You can join a gym because you want to, not because your spouse is embarrassed by the way you look.
49.If you get fired from work you’re not considered a loser – just unemployed.
50.You can have friends over who behave outrageously whenever you want.
I dont think people rush really....some people jus go with what they are feeling and sometimes these feelings can be very strong so they give the other person everything they have got...
There is no right or wrong..if u lived ur life and relationships by a book or by a set of rules then where is the fun and excitment.....
I say live by ur mistakes and by what u think is right and wrong....
Ur the only one who knows ur heart and ur head.........
And everyone is naive when it comes to matters of the heart!
minimoo Forum Posts (1,537)
RE: just saying hi
Love the new pic hun!