Profile views have increased, but no increase in mail. On the positive side, blogs or threads do give those that do mail to gain better insight into one's personality.
"Just Saying",,,My CS Experience has been!!!,,,& How about your's???
That which I wrote makes perfect sense as it is the experience of not only myself, but others that have had the same experience – using meets to build up a network. CS encourages participants to arrange local meets. As there exists a variety of different activities in Cape Town for single people to meet, networking between groups simply increases the chances of meeting a suitable partner. So if a CS event occurs in Cape Town, many of the people who participate can be introduced to other single networks that have been established for the purpose of meeting new single people.
Your personal experience in France is your personal experience. That does not make the experiences of any other CS participant invalid.
Alexandro10 has hit the nail on the head by having made the following comment:
“So my humble opinion to you is if you are looking for a RELATIONSHIP you have better changes to go to cape town and LIVE. If your looking for have fun and chat and share some opinions, this is the right place. Better then any other sites.”
CS provides an excellent platform to network with single people in a particular area. When a person actually makes an effort to contact you requesting to meet for coffee, an opportunity arises to get to know you as a person and vise versa. In the majority of cases sparks do not fly, but should compatibility in the form of friendship be achieved, then one may well find access to a network of new people which translates into increasing one's chances of meeting a potential partner.
One of the golden rules that one should apply, is that if a person has made the effort to write to you, the least one can do is to write back to thank the person (not applicable to correspondence received that is not valid – a scam). I.M.H.O. simply ignoring the individual due to the content of their profile or even worse on the basis of their photograph shows not only disrespect towards another human being, but reveals negative character traits of the receiver.
When, as Tori10 puts it, great guys with great profiles and pictures fail to respond any further, it may just be that such individuals have dug a bit deeper by reading comments made by the person posting onto blogs or polls, certain behavioral characteristics come to the fore which serve as a warning not to proceed any further.
Simply deleting your profile will result in the percentage of nasty people increasing and causing more good people to leave or not join. It is encouraging for others to find tiny islands of honesty here and there. One needs to have the attitude that you are in for the long-haul. Some people on CS have had success in finding a compatible partner - but are in the minority. All that one is doing is to possibly increase the chance of meeting the person that you are looking for.
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RE: does anybody here get more mail because they bother their a....s to create a thread?
Profile views have increased, but no increase in mail. On the positive side, blogs or threads do give those that do mail to gain better insight into one's personality.