He comes in and out of the house. He speaks his say, then he goes back out. We can't stand to be in the same room. That is why I am able to be on here. I have had 6 other surgeries. I am making an effort. I am working on getting out.
I feel sorry for the other women who have been treated this way. They know it takes time to get out of a situation. It's not easy. It takes time.
I would love to take that man of mine and tie him up and beat him. I posted a thread on "Is she a player" You are welcomed to read it. That is what making me down.
Yes he is aware of my plans. He sees my things packed. I tell him everyday. He wants me to work so that he will not have to support me and my kids. He wants me to get an education. He does not want me to leave. My health comes first. Can't survive on my own if I am sick. I have to keep myself going. My sick child depends on me to do her therapy. No one else is trained. I can't support my kids if I am sick. No I am not scared of him. Why do you think I defy him so?
I'm sorry he got done that way. This does not apply to me because I have not done these things. I have not asked anyone to help me. I am doing this on my own. I am getting myself out. No help from anyone.
I'm sorry you had to live that kind of life. I'm glad you are out of it. I have left many times before, but I had to end up coming back here due to no money. That is why I am getting my education. I want to do things right this time, so that I will not have to come back here. I don't see why some people can't see this. I am struggling, but making things right this time so that I will never have to live like this again.
Thanks I am doing just that. It is taking time. I counting the days. I already have some of my things packed and ready to go. He knows. He tells me not to do anything stupid. Too late I already have.
I live in a small community. There is not many jobs available. I want a job that will pay good. I had to struggle with the other jobs because they didn't pay well. What is wrong with wanting to better myself and seek the education I need.
The last sentence is correct.
Ok. My daughter has cystic fibrosis. If anyone understands this. She recieves medicaid and SSI. Living with him they include his income. We cannot make but so much money. If we go over that limit they will cut out her benefits. That is why it is important to get a better job that will pay for her bills and medicines. If I seek employment they will cut out her benefits and I cannot pay her bills. That is why I want an education so I can pay to live and her medicines and bills.
Like I have said many times. I am not staying in this mess. I am getting my education and getting out. I am getting out of it. My children will not live in it forever.
She worked as a textile worker for 7 years. Then 5 years as a nurse and had to stop that kind of work due to her health and is seeking education for a better job. She is looking to have surgery again. That is why she is not seeking a job. Her health is bad and needs surgery. He provides a home and food. That is good. The treatment is bad. Professional help is there to listen not help you get out of it. They only listen to someone's problems.
I think I turned out good. I don't drink or do drugs. I don't treat my kids bad. I say that is good. I didn't turn out like my parents. That is saying I turned out good.
Mentally and physically. He hasn't hit her in a long time. But not putting that theory on the shelf. He could get mad and start hitting her again. If she keeps defying him. He has a temper and can't take but so much.
To all She knows it is wrong to be treated like this and she is working on getting out. What is wrong to develop a relationship with someone that wants to be with her and is willing to help. Isn't that what we are here for. To help one another?
Thanks She is being smart in staying for the time being until she can get on her feet. No agencies would provide for her the way he does as far as money and supplies go. She wants to get on her feet and make it on her own. No she would of not got involved if she knew he was like this.
This experience will teach the girls that men should not treat women like that. They will know the signs and not be ignorant and get involved with a man that treats a woman like the way she is treated.
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Do you think she is a player?
He comes in and out of the house. He speaks his say, then he goes back out. We can't stand to be in the same room. That is why I am able to be on here. I have had 6 other surgeries. I am making an effort. I am working on getting out.I feel sorry for the other women who have been treated this way. They know it takes time to get out of a situation. It's not easy. It takes time.
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