This being a small town he would only aggravate her. Cannot get law involved. The law has told both any more problems and both go to jail no matter who start its. She can't go to jail. The best thing to do is get on her feet and be able to support herself and move from here. That is the smart thing. Places that you describe have rules one has to follow by and she cannnot be under any obligations like that.
No this person is not stable and does not expect another man to help. Just be there for her.
If she thought her children were hurting she would leave in a heartbeat.
She is not scared to leave. She will leave when it is time. Right now is not a good time. She is suppose to be having surgery. Therefore she needs him to help with her children. Her parents cannot help her. Her parents are sick.
She can't live with her parents. They live under the government. They know the situation and do not like it. There is nothing they can do to help. She is planning on leaving as soon as she can. It takes time.
She is working on getting out. Yes the children see all, but she talks to them and teaches them what is right and wrong. They are good children and they don't pay it any mind. They know their parents do not love one another and have been fussing before they were born. They understand. Happy children. Very. She does not want to leave because she has it made, but if she can find love, then leaving is no problem. She is content to stay until she can get on her feet. If she thought her children were in any danger she would leave in a heartbeat. The children are fine. She has dealt with this man for 15 years. She is use to his ways. She does not pay him any mind. She is working on getting out. It takes time even when someone has to go through an agency. Thanks for your input friend.
Yes she would leave him. What would the point be in finding love? No I don't think you are judging. Yes she would leave in a heartbeat if she knew this other person truly loved her.
There was no vows made between the two. They don't fight, just argue. Children pay no mind to it. They just tell their daddy to leave their mommy alone. She has it made really. She does not have to worry about working. The bills are paid. Food is kept in the house. He makes sure she has an car.
She lives with him because the last child was born with a disease and his family is the only ones that help and support her. The children want to be with both parents.
Is this love? He tells her: 1. No you can't go to town. 2. No you can't wear that. 3. No you can't go see your parents or call them. 4. No you can't watch that on TV. 5. No you can't talk to other men or have friends. 6. No you can't eat unless you feed me. 7. No you can't be inside the house unless I am in there. 8. No you can't be outside unless I am out there. 9. No you can't call or talk to anybody. 10. No you can't be up at night while I am in bed. 11. No you can't sleep if I am not sleeping.
The one she lives with. Not on his part it isn't open. He wants a real relationship. But they are not compartible. They love one another, but it is not a deep love for one another. They have been together for 15 years. But she hates his kind of love. He is to controlling. Mean. Hateful.
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Do you think she is a player?
She is working on getting out. It's just taking time. Thanks